Oasis

Just the Facts Please

2010-03-03T08:19:00.003-06:00

Angela gave me a book on dieting for Christmas two years ago. Good intentions aside, I did start the book but never made it to the end. In January I dug it out of from under a stack of other books I had started and stopped determined to truly read it through--and learn something.

Need to Know Basics: Dieting-Take the Smartest Step to a Thinner You by Christopher Hudson is a unique read. It is does not taunt any one diet plan, but gives a positive/negative run down of all the popular ones. Instead of just trying to cheer the reader on, Dieting gives practical facts, figures, and how-to tips.

I'll admit it, I've read (or tried to read) diet books in the past and never got far. Too boring and too much medical-ese. Just give me the bottom line--and that's just what Dieting delivered. Here's a few facts I learned:

* Two pounds of weight loss a week is realistic. It will take at least four months to lose 30 lbs.
* One pound of body fact = 3,500 calories
* 500 calories less a week = 1 lb loss a week.
* Body weight x 20= daily calorie requirement
* Morning exercise is best.
* Eat fruit alone--not combined with other food.

There's plenty of cheerleading and even a chapter of recipes if you need some new ones. I'm glad I started off the year with this book although I can't say I've lost any weight yet. It is good to have facts and information instead of the hype of other dieting books. Thanks Angela for a good read!

Snow Day Fun

2010-03-02T10:16:00.006-06:00

It's snowing--again! In all our years in Georgia I do not recall one with so much snow. For those of you in colder climates who are sniggering--an inch IS a lot of snow here! Presently we have that much on the ground and if the weatherman's predictions hold true, at least 10 more hours of it ahead.

While not a complete 'snow day' at our house, we are a bit laid back today. I thought I would share some of my favorite finds online this week.

Hello, Cupcake Giveaway

Ruth at Ecletic Whatnot is giving away a Hello, Cupcake cookbook this week at HSBA. Simply leave a comment and you're entered to win. Register before Friday, March 5th to be included. Click here to register.

Cute Bag Giveaway

Leigh Ann and Sherra over at Find Your Sock Yarn are giving away a cute reuseable grocery bag. I applaud efforts to go green, but let's face it with four kids I would spend a fortune buying enough green bags to take to the grocery store each week. Here's a way to win one of Leigh Ann's cute ones for free! IF I win I can't wait to have a new pretty library bag. Our current green REI bags are just not pretty! Hurry on over today because the giveaway closes Wednesday, March 3 at midnight PST. Click here to register.

Christianaudio.com
This month Christian Audio is offering TWO free audiobook downloads to help us prepare our hearts for Easter. Click here to download your free audiobooks.

The Cost of Discipleship by Dietrich Bonhoeffer.
"When Christ calls a man, he bid him come and die." While I've read a bit on the life of Bonhoeffer, I have not read any of his books so this is particularly exciting. Martyred in a German prison in 1945, Bonhoeffer preached the Gospel at all cost.

Fifty Reasons Why Jesus Came to Die by John Piper.
It seems everyone but myself has read a book by John Piper. I'm looking forward to listening to this audio during March.

Enjoy your snow day!

When Faith and Politics Collide

2010-02-23T16:23:00.004-06:00

I've told myself for years politics go only as far as the kitchen table debates my Dad and I have when we visit one another. My reporter's notebook got packed away years ago and I vowed to live my life blissfully not caring about small town shenanigans again.

That is until the city council here rezoned our residential area for industrial manufacturing.

That's right--come visit us on beautiful Lake Lanier--and take that red light quick in case the 18-wheeler behind you can't stop.

G-R-E-G....WHERE is THAT box of notebooks???

For those of you from you-know-where, the scandal has been killing me. When a local newspaper has to use the television station as a source there's a problem! Just saying.

So, maybe the politicians here are getting a bit of my frustration from left-over city hall days in you-know-where.

Nothing like those sweet memories...

Getting called into the mayor's office and told to lay-off the bootlegger.

Getting called into the mayor's office and told to stop trying to get into the bootlegger's new porn video establishment.

Being given a marijuana leaf as a souvenir after a drug raid by the Sheriff.

Good times, good times.

NOT!

And no, I don't have the marijuana leaf.

I threw it away a few years after the Sheriff was hauled off to prison.

I drove the mayor batty all those years ago--he drove me crazy with his syrupy spills. A true politician through and through--he could talk out of both sides of his mouth with a smile. He would mention my Grandpa and imply he knew the Lord too. I would smirk and sometimes laugh.

My Grandfather on the other hand was much kinder, gentler, and even loving towards him.

When Grandpa died, it was the Mayor who told me with real tears (yes, real ones--I'd been around the block with him long enough to know the real thing) the impact my Grandfather had on his life.

Grandpa wasn't anyone special in the community, but he loved and faithfully planted Gospel seed. He would call the Mayor and tell him straightforwardly he needed to repent of his sins and give his heart to Christ. He would also remind him of his responsibility to be a godly leader. The Mayor told me he knew Grandpa sincerely cared for the condition of his soul--and no one else talked as truthfully to him.

It wasn't too many years after Grandpa died that I heard the Mayor was serving the Lord--in spirit and truth, not just in name.

When it comes to politics I long for a kinder heart that sees a field for planting--and harvesting. This is one area where I can become completely distracted and get off-focus.

(Did I tell you about having to go through Fox News detox last year?)

There is a place for believers in politics and our voice does need to be heard. Some say we should just pray. Others say we should keep quiet. I think I'll try to follow Grandpa's example--pray and speak the truth in love.

Help me Lord.

When faith and politics collide let it be faith that shines true.

Emma

2010-02-22T20:36:00.007-06:00

Almost 200 years since her passing Jane Austen is still considered one of the greatest novelists of all time. Years ago I read Pride and Prejudice and Sense and Sensibility--both wonderful. However it wasn't until last week that I was introduced to Emma.

How could I have missed this classic?

Maybe I read it in my early 20's and simply forgot--I doubt it.

I would not have forgotten Austen's Emma?

PBS Masterpiece Theater is showing the 2009 version of Emma free online through March 9th. The movie is divided into three episodes which can be viewed by chapters--how I watched it. If you subscribe to Netflix you can find this version of Emma along with older remakes.

Strong, witty, funny, and a self-proclaimed match-maker, Emma's meddling gets her into more than one sticky situation. It's a family friendly movie young girls can watch--no foul language or inappropriate behavior. Click here to view.

If you enjoy Emma, consider watching Persuasion too. While it is not available to watch online, the version with Sally Hawkins is available through Netflix. Masterpiece Theater had an encore presentation of it last night and our local PBS station went out with only 40 minutes to go! I hopped on Netflix today and have it in queue--along with many other viewers as there is a wait for the movie now.

If you watch it, let me know what you think!

Attack of the Zhu-Zhu Pets

2010-01-25T05:00:00.012-06:00

If you have kids, you know what a Zhu-Zhu pet is.

If you don't know, it's a small battery operated hamster that was 2009's top Christmas toy. Translation...adults went crazy buying the little critters. We may homeschool, but my kids do not live in a bubble. The three younger ones began asking for a Zhu-Zhu pet back in the summer.

When I heard Zhu-Zhus were the rage I immediately marked them off my mental Christmas list. No way was I getting caught diving into a crowd for a $10 toy at Wal-Mart's. (You do know you can view Wal-Mart crazy people online? I'm afraid to look--I may see someone I know!)

The week before Christmas I was in Toys R Us and they had Zhu Zhu pets. No crazy parents pushing and shoving, in fact no one was around.

I looked both directions and grabbed four quickly--just in case there was a mad rush.

There is one thing you have to know about a Zhu-Zhu pet...do NOT put it in your hair.

Did I tell you my 10 year-old learned this lesson over the summer while playing with her cousin's pet?

It went like this...

She picked it up.

She turned it on.

She caught her hair in it.

All in three easy steps.

My super-hero sister-in-law patiently untangled E's hair while I laughed my head off and took pictures.

Back to Christmas.

Did I mention we gave my 2 year-old niece a Zhu-Zhu pet? My sister-in-law's little girl?

All afternoon we adults repeated the warning--do NOT put the rat in your hair.

It didn't matter. You know what's coming...

She picked it up.

Turned it on.

Sat it right on top of her head.

My super-hero sister-in-law patiently untangled her daughter's hair while I laughed my head off and took pictures again.

So, if you have a hamster stuck in your hair today, give me and my sister-in-law a call.

She'll untangle while I take pictures.

Interesting Sites & Sounds

2009-08-02T22:48:00.006-05:00

Things have been busy around our house the last few weeks. We were honored to host family and friends followed by a trip of our own to see the grandparents. In the midst of it all I've been planning our school year slated to begin next week. Lots to do--lots to do.

Whether you homeschool or not, here's some sites I've visited this week in my search for better organization that you may enjoy. Plus, there's a good article and of course some freebies.

Project Girl pretty menu planning forms to print--for free!

SpellingCity is a free site that allows kids to enter their spelling list and it will test, teach, or play games using the list. Great for daily practice leading up to a test!

My Audio School. Molly has put together a subscription site filled with audio books. Great site--check it out!

Freebies this week include everything from Queso dip at Moe's to a free eReader for iPhones, Blackberry, PC or Mac from Barnes & Noble with six free eBooks including The Last of the Mochicans and Merriam-Webster's Pocket Dictionary.

Tebow Leaves Reporters Speechless. Good article on Florida QB Tim Tebow.

PJs for Christmas

2009-07-21T08:16:00.005-05:00

My family has a tradition of opening one present each on Christmas Eve. The gift is no surprise--a new pair of pajamas.

Even though they know what the gift is, everyons still gets excited. Of course there is always a picture taken of the kids sporting their new duds by the Christmas tree.

I used to work hard to find four matching pajama sets. The kids did not enjoy looking alike if even for one night, so the tradition got tweaked a bit. Now, I search for fun pjs for each child--ones on sale of course.

Right now is a good time to buy fall and winter pajamas--really. The Disney Store currently has most of their cold weather pjs $4.99. The key is to get in there and get the needed sizes before they sell out or begin stocking new styles.

The pajamas are well-made and are also perfect for niece and nephew gifts.

If you do not have a Disney Store near you, shop the outlet store online. Instore sales will have a better selection and price, but you can still get some good deals online.

Run for Your Life

2009-07-19T14:44:00.004-05:00

I watched Run for Your Life this week.

It is amazing how anointed words spoken in 2001 are just as relevant-- if not more so--in 2009.

Powerful.

Convicting.

Watch it yourself and then let me know your thoughts.

Related Oasis Blogs:

Is the Cross False Advertising?

Let Me Re-Introduce the Christ

I am Patrick, a Sinner

Do You Believe the Bible?

Christmas Photos

2009-07-16T21:45:00.007-05:00

Now is a great time to take pictures for Christmas letter or cards. While visiting the beach or grandma's house, gather the family for a group picture.

While cousins visited this week we headed over to the lake and took pictures of all the grandkids together. If it is a rare treat for everyone to be together, like it is for us, take advantage of the opportunity.

All you need for your own photo session is a camera (preferably digital), tripod, and lots of patience. Be prepared to take plenty of photos to get one or two keepers.

These special family photos make wonderful gifts--especially for hard-to-buy for grandparents.
* Enlarge and frame one of the photos.
* Make a special album of all the photos. Use Photoshop and put some in sepia or black and white tones for a unique touch.
* Create a CD and set it to music.

Christmas in July

2009-07-09T08:28:00.007-05:00

In time past many of us would laugh off the thought of thinking ahead to Christmas in July. In July it is easy to be proud procrastinators.Today's economy has changed that privilege for many families. Nowadays everything we can do in advance serves not only to save money but our time too. Taking time this month to think ahead will pave the way for a more peaceful and rewarding holiday with family and friends.

Special Occasions Binder.
In 2005 Anita Cramer shared the idea of creating a binder to keep up with all the lists and ideas associated with Christmas with me over at MMCW. Taking her idea a step further, my binder includes all the events my family celebrates throughout the year. I can quickly pinpoint family holiday recipes, card lists, gift lists, or party menus without tearing the house apart. Better yet, I have a place to put ideas for family gatherings that I compile during the year from magazines and online reading. My binder is a simple $4 binder from Wal-Mart. Sections are divided with tabs and include: Thanksgiving, Christmas, Gift List, Christmas Card List, Homemade Goodie Ideas, Christmas Recipes, Christmas Parties, New Years, Valentine's Day, 4th of July, Birthdays, and Mother's/Father's Day. I use page protectors to house pages torn from magazines, recipes, and gift receipts. If you do not have a binder, set one up this month. Just putting copies of your family's favorite Christmas recipes in one spot will save you time come December.

Right on Schedule.
Take a look at your calendar now in July. Odds are you have few events scheduled presently for November and December. Guard as many of those free days for your family as possible. Be intentional during the months ahead and use your time--and your binder--to stay ahead of the holiday rush. Pencil in events you know will be happening during December in the margin of the calendar. Only list events that are essential and feel free to set a boundary now around your December time.

Strategize Now.
Sit down and write your gift list for 2009 and assign a monetary amount to each person. Be realistic--do not forget Christmas stockings gifts too! The beauty of planning Christmas in July is that you have plenty of time to find a $25 gift for $5. Do not put down a $25 gift amount when you know that your budget is realistically $5.

Make the hard decisions this month.
If you cannot afford to give gifts to extended family this year, have the discussion now. Choosing to draw names or set spending limits are alternatives. You may be surprised to find everyone else just as relieved about the change. Having a list along with a budget will help to avoid the burden of over spending in December. Keep a master list in your binder and a small copy in your purse. I keep my list on a folded piece of paper in my wallet.

Eyes Wide Open.
The key to Christmas in July is keeping our eyes alert for deep discounted summer sales. Around July 4th I visit the Disney store for 75% off beach towels and toys. During the same time period Target begins clearing out to make room for Christmas toys. By the first of August, Christian bookstores such as Lifeway mark selected home decor, books, jewelry, and CDs anywhere from 75% to 90% off. With the economy in its current state, do not be surprised to find deeper discounts than usual at the mall from clothing retailers. There are great fall and weather clothing sales to be had now at name brand stores. Just last weekend, I bought two fall blouses and a pair of jeans for $16. Finally, don't rule out yard sales. I once bought four American Girl dolls in mint condition for $25 each at a yard sale. Never underestimate the power of the Lord to provide just what you are looking for within the budget you have.

Every Little Bit Counts
Do you have craft projects that would make perfect Christmas gifts? July is the perfect time to pull them together. If you like making homemade goodies, right now is time for gathering jars for blueberry jam or maybe fig preserves. Are you a scrapbooker? Use extra supplies to create some gifts for teen scrapbookers in your family or even make an album for someone special. Make a photo CD set to music of last Christmas to give as gifts this year to family. Pick up a $5 Sonic gift card or maybe $10 iTunes cards. (Yes, $10 iTunes cards exist. They come in packs of three at Wal-Mart.)

Taking the time in July to develop a plan for Christmas will pave the way for a more peaceful and less stress-filled December.

This month on Oasis I will share Christmas ideas and strageties to save time and money.

So-long Cozy Coupe

2009-06-20T20:04:00.007-05:00

It seems I always chose the hottest day to have a yard sale. This year's sale was no exception--it was 100 today. After a two-day yard sale, things cluttering our garage have found new homes to clutter.

The saddest departure was a Little Tykes Cozy Coupe. After four kids and fourteen years it is making a two-year old happy at his grandmother's house. I wish I would have taken a picture of our beloved toy that was with us for so long. This picture shows it in shiny new condition. Our cozy coupe was faded, but still had many miles left in it.

If you are looking for a good toy investment a cozy coupe is a winner. Infact, Little Tykes toys are all stellar in my book. If they can make it through three boys and a girl and still work it's a keeper!

God's Chisel

2009-06-17T21:23:00.002-05:00

This powerful new video by The Skit Guys is message we all need to be encouraged with today. We all matter--God makes no junk!

Do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what He has promised. Hebrews 10:35

VBS & Faith

2009-06-16T12:39:00.003-05:00

Dropping my youngest off at VBS has not been a issue until today. This morning he told me he was not sure about going. My positive reply about games, snacks, friends, and fun did not change his mind. As I left him with his teacher he was such a big boy trying desperately to control his tears. I could see his lip quivering and his eyes filling with tears. When I walked away his teacher was speaking to him gently, trying to get him focused on the fun ahead.

As I walked away I also thought how I must look to God at times.

I want something so badly and He says wait. My lips quiver and eyes fill with tears. Discontentment is hard to deal with sometimes. Yes, I'm not some super spiritual person that has all the answers and gets her way. Discontentment is a struggle--especially when I think I have a better way and want it NOW.

I wish my youngest could have focused farther ahead even by an hour this morning. He would have been squirming, wiggling, and giggling impatiently with excitement. I need to remember that too.

The children of Israel were the same way--they could not see across the Red Sea or into the Promise Land. They were not willing to see with eyes of faith.

This morning I read in Psalm 43:3:

Send forth your light and your truth, let them guide me.

Lord, send Your light and truth to be my guide daily--help me to have eyes of faith to believe in You now for what is ahead.

Free Summer Fun

2009-06-13T21:47:00.002-05:00

Looking for ways to have fun this summer without breaking the bank? Here's two opportunities you will want to check into:

* Regal Cinemas.
Free movies two days a week.

* Bass Pro Shop
Bass Pro Shop locations across the country are offering Family Summer Camp now through July 5th for free. Families can attend workshops on animal identification, camping basics, hiking basics, bird watching, plants and insects, shooting basics, archery, fishing basics, and make Kraft S'mores over a campfire. The workshops are completely free and last 30 minutes each. Children earn a pin badge for each workshop they complete.

Everything

2009-06-10T14:26:00.006-05:00

If you have not seen The Mission minister in drama to Lifehouse's Everything where have you been?

When I checked today, views on tangle.com are approaching 9 million while youtube.com is at over 10.3 million.

Presented at Church of God Winterfest back in 2006, three years later it's still a relevant visual to the powerful love of God. For those of you who are wondering what Winterfest is, it is the denominational gathering of Church of God youth for a weekend of praise, worship, and spot-on teaching. My son and husband were blessed to be apart of the cheering / worshiping thousands back in 2006.

Just because it was intended for youth don't think for a moment there is no message in it for adults. If you haven't watched the video, prepare to be blessed!

How DID I Clean that Toilet?

2009-06-08T16:45:00.005-05:00

I've had a few questions regarding How Not to Clean a Toilet.

Actually just one question asked several times.

So, how did I clean the toilet with no brush?

I poured and sprayed every cleaner I had into the toilet bowl. Picture lots of coughing and gagging.

Dropped in close to a full roll of paper towels and flushed of course.

How else would I have done it?

Have you checked out the marriage blog carnival at Mentoring Moments for Christian Women? If you enjoy visiting blogs then you'll love the quality writers and their interesting blogs. Who knows--you may find some great give aways too!

Stopping to Smell the Flowers

2009-06-05T09:15:00.001-05:00

Mightier than the thunder of the great waters, mightier than the breakers of the sea--the Lord on high is mighty. Your statutes stand firm; holiness adorns your house for endless days, O Lord. Psalm 93:4-5

It's Friday!

Slow down to smell the flowers and enjoy the beautiful day the Lord has blessed us with today.

And, incase you haven't heard this week...

San Diego County Trying to Stop Home Bible Studies

Sand Diego County Issues Apology to Pastor

Starbucks Revamps Menu...Again

John Adams

2009-06-03T10:47:00.000-05:00

HBO's 7-part mini-series on the life of our nation's second president, John Adams, is a powerful look into colonial America. The movie is based on the book, John Adams
by David McCullough. I rented the series free at our local library--I could not beat the price! My family spent a week watching a few episodes each night.

The movie includes two inappropriate scenes along with seven bad words. There is enough forewarning to fast forward through the scenes. The language is spread out over the course of the series with most of it towards the end.

The love story of John and Abigail Adams is central to the story with a look into the sacrifice and consequences of political life in Revolutionary America. Their marriage, which spanned 54 years was tenderly marked by calling one another 'my dearest friend.' I particularly enjoyed the final scenes showing the Adams' while snippets of their love letters were being read by the narrator.

Viewers watch as Abigail Adams parents four children alone as John is in Boston for the Continental Congress followed by years in France as a diplomat. Magnificent scenes of the budding of our nation along with introductions to other historical figures of the time rounds out the movie.

My family enjoyed the series. The movies have planted seeds of curiosity to learn more about John and Abigail Adams. I would recommend this for older children and adults -- with a remote handy to fast forward through the inappropriate scenes.

Some books now on my reading list as a result of watching the movie:
My Dearest Friend: Letters of Abigail and John Adams
Abigail Adams: A Biography
The Adams-Jefferson Letters: The Complete Correspondence Between Thomas Jefferson and Abigail and John Adams

2009-06-02T18:05:00.001-05:00

"Don't take anyone else's word for God. Find Him yourself, and then you too will know by the wonderful, warm tug on your heartstrings that He is there for sure."

Billy Graham

Hobo Dinners

2009-06-01T21:02:00.000-05:00

Cracker Barrel calls them campfire dinners--my family says hobo dinners.
The difference is the cost.
$8.99 each at Cracker Barrel.
Around $8 to feed a family of six made at home.

My family loves these meals made individually in aluminum foil packs. Perfect for camp food, they are just as good cooked in the oven at home. The beauty of this dinner is it is cheap, easy to assemble, and can be individualized. If you're looking for a fun twist on dinner tonight, create your own hobo/campfire dinners!

Hobo Dinner
4lbs ground chuck
1 large onion (1/2 finely chopped, 1/2 thinly sliced rings)
1 egg
10) whole wheat crackers crushed
A-1 Steak Sauce (BBQ sauce is good too)
Salt and Pepper
Mix all ingredients except onion rings in a large bowl. Form into patties and place on a square of aluminum foil (large enough to hold all you want to cook with room to fold up). This is basically meatloaf so your favorite recipe will be great.

Top meat with sliced onion rings. Place quartered new potatoes and corn-on-the-cob around the meat. Fold up to seal foil. Place all your packets on a cookie sheet and bake at 350 degrees for 45 minutes to one hour or until meat is cooked through and potatoes are soft.

Other wonderful versions include chicken, fish, and a variety of veggies--the sky's the limit with this easy dish. By the way, it's not limited to dinner time only. Dessert in a foil packet is a fun treat too!

Good Deals

2009-05-29T20:38:00.000-05:00

I love bargain shopping. My friend Michelle says it is another way of God blessing us and I must agree. It continually amazes me how just the right item will go on sale at just the right time.

God's timing is always good.

Here's some deals you may want to check into this weekend:

Old Navy
They have a variety of t-shirts on sale this weekend for $3. For teens this is a great deal.

Publix
Need snack food for the kids? This week Publix has plenty of Buy One Get One Free items such as Capri Sun and Chips Ahoy Cookies. If your a Braves fan you'll love their Buy One Ticket Get One Free deal this week too.

Church Bookstore
Okay, so you have to attend LCOG to take advantage of this sale. My church bookstore has a great discount section at the back of the store. Items are anywhere from 25% up to 90% off. I picked up several boxes of cards and several children's books at 90% off.

Yankee Candle
Tumbler Jar candles (10 oz) for $7. Cottage Breeze and Fresh Cut Roses are my favorites.

Pacific Sun
Great online sale--plaid shirts for guys at $6.99 and flip flops for $12.75. We went to the mall today thinking the sale was going on in the store too. Wrong. These bargains are for online shoppers only. To receive an additional 15% off your online order first sign up to receive PacSun's email. Wish I would I realized this before placing my order!

Most of us don't want to think about it, but Christmas is fast approaching. Take advantage of rock bottom prices to stock up on gift items. You'll be amazed at both savings in time and money come December.

Passing It On

2009-05-28T20:42:00.000-05:00

My friend Michelle accepted a challenge at church to read her Bible in a year. At the end of the year our church recognized those who completed the challenge with a certificate. As they stood in front of the church, our pastor asked each to share what reading the Bible meant to them.

I can still recall Michelle's tearful answer. The Word had blessed her immensely, but it was what it was doing in the lives of her children that meant the most. Her interest and daily commitment to the Bible had set an example before her children that resulted in their interest in the Bible.

Setting the example of reading God's Word will transcend generations. Our children may be too young right now to realize we do not have all the answers as parents, but one day they will know. It's inevitable, as adults they will face many situations that only God Almighty can handle. They need to know that prayer and God's Word are the only place to turn.

If there's one memory I want my children to have of me it is of praying and reading my Bible.

What about you?

Here is an inspiring video about the Bible.
If you are reading via email you will need to click here and view on my blog.

Do You Believe the Bible?

2009-05-26T20:45:00.000-05:00

These days, even in Christian circles, it's a loaded question.

Everyone initially says yes, but their fine print on the issue is different.

Maybe the question to ask is:

Do you believe in the infallible Word of God?

What exactly does infallible mean?

It means according to Webster's Dictionary:
1. Incapable of error
2. Not liable to mislead, deceive, or disappoint
3. Incapable of error in defining doctrines touching faith or morals.

Do you believe the Bible is without error?
Do you believe God is capable of not only providing us with His Word, but also maintaining it's integrity over time?

Here are few more questions:
* Do you believe that God created the earth?
* Do you believe in the Virgin birth?
* Do you believe that Christ rose from the dead?
* Do you believe He is one day returning for His bride, the Church?
* Do you believe the whole Bible?
* Do you believe the whole Bible is complete?

If any part of the Bible is wrong then the entire book is in error.

If one believes only certain sections and writes off others that says God is capable of error and incapable of providing us with an infallible Word.

If one part of the Bible is wrong, at what point does it become correct?
At what point does God become infallible? After Genesis or maybe it's Matthew?

These are thought provoking questions if one struggles with the importance of Scripture.

Take a moment and check out these wonderful articles:
Answers in Genesis' article Jesus on the Infalliblity of Scripture.

Got Questions' article Why is it Important to Believe in Biblical Inerrancy?

If you have an issue with any part of scripture take it to God in prayer instead of avoiding the subject--face it head on. Ask the Lord for discernment and direction. God is not man who will give hundreds of different opinions. Stop looking for the opinion that fits what you think it means and just ask God. One of the works of the Holy Spirit in the life of believers is to lead us into all truth (John 16:13).

Go to Him in prayer and dig into the Bible.

I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished. Matthew 5:18 NIV

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work. II Timothy 3:16-17 NIV

First Things First

2009-05-25T08:29:00.000-05:00

A challenge for most, if not all women is finding time to read the Bible. It's funny how I have time to watch a favorite show, chat with a friend on the phone, and speed time on the internet, but when it comes to getting to know God, well time runs short. Why is that?

Over the years I've discovered a curious thing--days include time spent in prayer and reading my Bible run more smoothly. Everything that needs to be done gets accomplished. On top of that, I have a sense of completeness and rest unlike days when I feel I'm too busy to stop. Making prayer and Bible reading a daily part of each day results in a more balanced life.

Let's face it--how many of us find ourselves falling short most days? I will be the first to raise my hand. It's not easy--the siren call of life is enticing and all the more reason to stay focused. There is a lot at stake and the enemy will pull out any distraction possible to keep us from delving into God's Word. The one that gets me is the lie that reading the Bible is not all that important in the life of a believer. Hogwash!

Elizabeth George says we are to be women of one book, the Bible. Before the latest Christian fiction, the new magazine on the counter, reading any blog or posting on Facebook put first things first.

Put God first--pray and read His Word.

Knowing who we are in Christ is a theme the Lord has placed deep within my heart. I truly feel the only way to know who we are as women is to first know who He is and that will only occur through prayer and reading the Bible. It will not happen reading the latest book about the Bible or even listening to sermons--all of which is supplemental to our faith for encouragement and study. Nothing compares or should be set above time with God in prayer and reading His Word.

If you are at a point in your Christian walk where you are wondering if there is more I would like to say yes!

The only way you will find what you are looking for in Christ is through His Word and prayer. Reading what someone else has to say about Him is a cheap imitation. The devil likes to make us think the Bible is boring and predictable--what a lie.

If you want to grow spiritually then put first things first and watch Christ open your spiritual eyes and ears to a world of adventure!

Queen of Rubbermaid

2009-05-24T14:58:00.000-05:00

When our oldest was born I would fold clothes slowly as he slept. Slowly because I was watching intently to make sure he was breathing. Not much got done during those days. I worked full time and Saturdays were spent grocery shopping and cleaning. I recall thinking how there was no time for anything.

Fast forward fifteen years,three more children, add on homeschooling, music, sports, writing for Mentoring Moments, Oasis, and my church women's ministry blog, serving as webmaster of MMCW and on the board of WOTM. I laugh when I think of those early days--I was clueless to what the phrase I have no time really meant.

Back then I thought of myself as an organized person, maybe because I could stand in the container aisle of Wal-Mart and think up innovative ways to store things. Always on the look out for ways to save space, you could have called me the Queen of Rubbermaid. These days organization is not a past time, it is a necessity. The saying is true--the more children you have the more organized you become.

I thought I would share a few organization tips today that I think you'll enjoy.

Supply Closet

Finding a way to organize all of our homeschool supplies and books proved easier than I thought when I found these plastic drawers at Wal-Mart. Drawers are purchased individually so one can stack as many as they please. Because of space I was able to fit in two smaller plastic drawers on the bottom right to hold puzzles, envelopes, and mailing supplies. Even if you do not homeschool, these drawers are perfect for office supplies, craft supplies, games, and puzzles. If you are a grandmother with extra closet space they would make a great spot for crayons, paper, Play-Do, Barbies, doll clothes, and more. The drawers do slide out so they can be transported elsewhere in the home and put back when finished.

Check out

Closetmaid.com

My friend Michelle shared this like with me. You can enter your closet dimensions and receive plans for a professional remake that you can do on your own.

Jewelry Joy

Carla Anne shares a simple way to organize jewelry.

Pantry Organization

Leigh Ann has a nifty way to increase storage space in a small food pantry.

Never Refusing God

2009-05-23T11:48:00.000-05:00

"If I could give you information of my life it would be to show how a woman of very ordinary ability has been led by God in strange and unaccustomed paths to do in His service what He has done in her. And if I could tell you all, you would see how God has done all, and I nothing. I have worked hard, very hard, that is all; and I have never refused God anything."--Florence Nightingale

Chick-Fil-A

2009-05-21T21:55:00.000-05:00

Breakfast at Chick-Fil-A became a weekly tradition this year in our home. One week because of early appointments I believe we ate there every morning. We became such frequent visitors at one, I switched to another location out of embarrassment!

For you fellow Chick-Fil-A fans you'll love this funny video by Tim Hawkins.

Puffy Pancake

2009-05-20T21:29:00.000-05:00

For E's birthday breakfast she requested a new recipe I found at Your Homebased Mom--Puff Up Pancake. The children and I enjoyed watching the pancake, which is nothing like a pancake at all, puff.

The first five minutes in the oven were tricky--we thought we had used the wrong type of flour. True to it's word, puffing action began and did not stop until pulled from the oven. There were more ohs and ahs as puffy pancake became flat-as-a-flitter pancake with tall sides.

Sprinkled with powdered sugar, drizzled with syrup, and topped with sliced strawberries it was delicious. For those of you with more than one child you know the feeling of success I experienced when all the children pronounced it a keeper recipe.

I tweaked the recipe a bit as the original calls for a stick of butter and I found that to be too much.

Puffy Pancake

1/4 cup butter

5 eggs

1 1/4 cup milk

1 teaspoon vanilla

1 1/4 cup all-purpose flour

Melt butter in 9 x13 pan in the oven while oven is preheating to 425 degrees. Mix eggs, flour, and milk with an electric blender. Add batter to dish and bake for 25 minutes or until center is set and side are golden brown.

Loving All the Giveaways!

2009-05-19T11:06:00.000-05:00

Blog giveaways are the hottest thing going on these days in bloggie world. It's a fun, low-cost way to attract new readers--and it's easy to enter and win. Bloggers usually ask readers to enter their give away by leaving a comment. Some bloggers will allow additional entries when readers share the blog by forwarding the link to friends. If you are the lucky gal, the respective blogger will contact you and mail your prize. Most contests are a week in duration so don't put off entering. In the process you may find some great blogs to follow.

Here are the giveaways I've entered this week--you may like to enter too:

Counter-Cultural School
Molly is giving away Nathan Clark George's new DVD, Pull Up a Chair. If you love easy listening worship you'll love this DVD.

Our Journey Westward
In the Sparrow's Nest
Cindy and her friend Melissa have written a new series of nature unit studies called Nature Explorers. Both are giving away three unit studies each.

Your Homebased Mom
Leigh Anne is giving away Emeril's new cookbook, Emeril at the Grill: A Cookbook for All Seasons.

Mentoring Moments for Christian Women Blog
From My Heart to Yours: Inspirational Messages from the Wives of Ministers devotional. Wish I could enter this give away! As the publisher of MMCW it probably wouldn't look good.

Will the Circle Be Unbroken

2009-05-17T23:09:00.001-05:00

Can you picture it...

For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. Encourage each other with these words. (I Thessalonians 4:16-18)

As we toured the Colonial Park Cemetery in Savannah, GA I could not help but recall those powerful words as I snapped this picture. A family buried together to one day rise as one to meet their Savior.

That is if they knew Him in this life.

Did each member of this family know and serve Him?

Or, did they leave this life lost to sin and death?

The hymn Will the Circle Be Unbroken comes to mind.
When the day comes, will my family and yours rise together?

It's one of the most heart-wrenching questions of eternity. Will we be there together?

The Carter and Cash families made Will the Circle Be Unbroken famous for a new generation in the 1970's. Ada Habershon's original 1907 version of Will the Circle Be Unbroken is still powerful all these years later and my favorite.

Today let Will the Circle Be Unbroken be the song in your heart as you pray and witness to friends and family.

Will the Circle Be Unbroken?
Ada Habershon, 1907
There are loved ones in the glory,
Whose dear forms you often miss;
When you close your earthly story,
Will you join them in their bliss?

Will the circle be unbroken
By and by, by and by?
In a better home awaiting
In the sky, in the sky?

In the joyous days of childhood,
Oft they told of wondrous love,
Pointed to the dying Savior
Now they dwell with Him above.

You remember songs of heaven
Which you sang with childish voice,
Do you love the hymns they taught you,
Or are songs of earth your choice?

You can picture happy gatherings
Round the fireside long ago,
And you think of tearful partings,
When they left you here below:

One by one their seats were emptied,
One by one they went away;
Here the circle has been broken--
Will it be complete one day?

Is Anybody Listening?

2009-04-29T09:03:00.000-05:00

Links to Enjoy Today

Cheri Fuller's free podcast Perspectives on Mothering.

http://www.cherifuller.com/

Guard Your Testimony at Women on the Move

http://wotmlcog.blogspot.com/

Five Dollar Dinners

http://www.5dollardinners.com/

Is Anybody Listening?

from A Busy Woman's Guide to Prayer by Cheri Fuller

God spoke the world into existence.

"God said, 'Let there be light,' and there was light" (Genesis 1:3).

By His words, he created everything in our universe.

And you know, the Lord is still speaking today.

Psalm 50:3 says God "shall not keep silence (KJV).

In Psalm 29, David says, "The God of glory thunders, the LORD is over many waters. The voice of the LORD is powerful, the voice of the LORD is majestic" (vv.3-4 NASB).

Psalm 32:8 says, "I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you should go" (NASB), and in Isaiah 30:21 we read, "Your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, 'This is the way, walk in it'" (NKJV).

Whereas God spoke in both the Old Testament and the New Testament, listening to the Lord isn't just for Bible days. Jesus said his sheep would hear his voice (see John 10:27).

Well, we are his sheep, and he invites us to listen and follow.

Sister Christine

2009-04-27T23:39:00.000-05:00

Sister Christine has always been old.

She was old when I was in elementary school.
She was old when I was in middle school and she was old when I turned sixteen.

There was one thing Sister Christine was not...

She was not old at heart.

Sister Christine loved people. She was interested and involved.

Most of all, Sister Christine loved me.

When I turned 16 Sister Christine threw me a sweet sixteen party. In the weeks leading up to the party she would tell me at church what she was planning. There would be a bombfire with chili--cooked outside over an open fire in a black iron kettle. She would make my favorite cake--chocolate with chocolate icing from scratch.

I never asked her to throw the party. I did not know how to accept this gift. No one had ever done anything like that for me. I did not think she was serious.

Looking back I know she knew--she knew I needed the affirmation and love.
She knew I needed someone to celebrate me.

The day arrived and I really did not think much about my party other than as a pit stop for free food. I gathered my friends and we headed out to the country to Christine's house. When I say country I mean a place where more cows than people lived.

Everyone sang happy birthday to me. We ate chili and the best chocolate cake ever. Within an hour we were done and hitting the road to do what teenagers do best--nothing.

I still feel the same pit in my stomach that I felt that night. She cared. She remembered. She noticed.

I in return left my own party with barely a thank you. I do remember her words when I told her we (my friends and I) wanted to leave. She laughed and said, oh you kids go on--I know you don't want to hang out with an old person like me. I can still see her standing on her porch waving and laughing as we drove away.

At sixteen I could not forsee the influence Christine would have on my life. Twenty-five years later I understand the power of one senior adult in the life of a young woman searching for God's love.

Sister Christine was the lady who sat near my Grandmother at church. Sometimes when I would go to the altar to pray she would come and kneel next to me and lay her loving hands on my back. She would tell me as I was leaving church that she loved me.

All the little things she did and said before and after services--in the span of just a few minutes a week buildt up to have a profound affect on my life.

Sister Christine's example challenges me today as I think of my four children. While I try with God's grace to be a Christian example of a godly wife and mother I know that I cannot do it all--and what I do is not perfect. My children, just like myself, need mentors.

We all need a Sister Christine.

We all need senior adult women who are dedicated to pouring into the lives of younger women.
We all need younger women who will respect and submit to the wisdom of older women.
We all need women of all ages who will tear down walls raised to divide the ages.
We all need spiritual grandmothers, mothers, daughters, and sisters.

We need one another dear sisters--what we are doing and saying is impacting generations to come.

Can you be Sister Christine today to someone?

"For the kingdom of God is not a matter of talk but of power." I Corinthians 4:20

Just Knock

2009-04-27T01:00:00.000-05:00

For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. Luke 11:10

Johnny & Chachi sing The Don't Song

2009-04-25T08:34:00.000-05:00

What does big hair and 80's rock duo Hall & Oats have to do with marriage?

Nothing.

What does big hair wigs and Johnny & Chachi's hilarious Hall & Oats spoof have to do with marriage?

Plenty.

Co-founders of Get in Here Ministries, these guys have some of the funniest videos around--especially The Don't Song. Reminiscent of a bad Hall & Oats hair day, this is video should be watched by every couple--especially newlyweds! You'll have a good laugh at the simple wisdom Johnny & Chachi share with men concerning things they should not do in a marriage.

If you received this blog post as an email you will need to go to the blog to view the video.

How Not to Clean a Toilet

2009-04-23T11:45:00.000-05:00

When Greg and I married twenty-years ago I had no clue how to clean a house. Among our wedding gifts were a variety of tools and cleaning products to scrub an apartment top to bottom. The one thing we did not have was a toilet bowl brush.

Imagine my surprise six months later when I over heard co-workers discussing cleaning their bathrooms.

There is a brush?

You do what with the brush?

I sat at my desk in horrified silence. I never knew!

The next day was Saturday and Greg was gone for the day. Armed with my arnesal of cleaning products and gadgets I attacked the bathroom and tub (yeah, didn't know it was suppose to be cleaned too).

I still didn't have a brush.

Didn't know where you went to buy such a thing.

Everything sparkled. All that was left was the final flush of the toilet.

While putting the gadgets and cleaners away, there came a loud knocking at my door. Looking through the peep-hole it was a big gruffy, unhappy looking man. There was no way I was opening the door to the likes of him and whatever he was selling.

He would not go away.

"If you don't open the door I'm coming in with the pass-key. You've flooded the toilet in the apartment down stairs."

I don't know if it was his irratated voice of authority or the embarassment of him yelling for the whole complex to hear that made me open the door. Once inside I pleasantly escorted the man to my nice, clean, sparkly bathroom. He inspected and asked if I had any problems to which I told him with my pride swelling, no I had just finished cleaning the bathroom.

"You do know you're not suppose to flush paper towels down the toilet."

It wasn't a question.

Then I did it. I lied.

I told the grumpy man I had not flushed paper towels.

It took me a couple of hours to realize he knew the truth--he was the one cleaning up the downstairs apartment! Yes--young and slow.

Having the right tools and cleaners does not matter if they are not used properly. I learned the hard way. Nowadays we have several bathrooms which I have a goal of cleanly weekly and occasionally have to call a plumber to plunge. Like the time our daughter poured a new box of Q-tips in and flushed and when our son flushed an apple and it got stuck. The plumber is not grumpy these days--and neither would I be with the checks I've written to him!

Learning to clean the bathroom taught me an important lesson--the need for mentors in my life. Marriage and children do not come with instruction manuels, but God has provided us with His Word and the command to mentor and be mentored (Titus 2). Take time to listen to the wisdom godly Christian women have--the Lord will use them to speak life into your marriage, children, and heart.
Don't wait until life is overflowing!

Choosing a Bible Study

2009-04-21T20:38:00.000-05:00

When I worked full-time I would say to myself, if I had time I'd love to do a Bible study. When I left work to raise children I used the same excuse.

Sound familiar?

Following are some thoughts that may be of help in deciding how to begin a Bible study program--and not let the excuses hinder you from growing in God's Word.

* Pray. Talk to the Lord about a course of study. He does hear and respond.

* Listen. Does a particular subject repeatedly come to mind? The Holy Spirit often brings things to our mind to encourage us in a certain direction. My turning point came when the Lord laid the study Breaking Free by Beth Moore on my heart. The title would pop to mind, friends mentioned it, local churches were advertising women's Bible studies on the radio and guess which one they were doing--you guessed it.

As I was flipping through television stations one day, I stopped on James Robinson's talk show to hear an interview he and his wife, Betty, were conducting. What their guest said cut me right to the heart. It wasn't chance or coincidence. The guest was Beth Moore and she was sharing her Bible study Breaking Free: Making Liberty in Christ a Reality in Life.

* Find a way. At that time studies in my area did not fit my schedule. What was I to do? I sensed the Lord leading me to study on my own at home. I purchased the workbook and audio cassettes (about $60 for workbook and audio tapes at Lifeway Christian Bookstore). After years of struggling and making excuses, I found a way to do a Bible study that worked for my season of life.

Participating in a group setting is the intention of most study curriculums and extremely helpful as it promotes fellowship and sharing. However, if you cannot attend a group setting do not allow it to hinder you from studying on your own. Curriculums can be purchased that include both a workbook and audio/CDs or DVDs of the teaching sessions.

Do not allow cost to become an excuse either. Over the years I have borrowed studies from friends, checked them out of our church library, and saved money to purchase those I could not obtain otherwise. When I do buy a study, I get the audio CDs and a workbook. The CDs are the audio version of the DVDs at a much cheaper price.

An added blessing of building a Bible study curriculum library is the opportunity to share with others and host studies in your home.

* Some good studies. Two of my favorite authors are Beth Moore and Elizabeth George who gear their studies to women's issues.

Beth Moore offers her studies in a variety of formats including online study, downloads of audio versions of her teaching, dvds, cds, and workbooks. After all these years Breaking Free remains the study that changed my life. If you have not done this study, check out the updated edition this fall. Notable favorites include:
The Psalms of Ascent: Stepping Upward
A Heart like His: Seeking the Heart of God Through a Study of David
A Woman's Heart: God's Dwelling Place

Elizabeth George has excellent book and companion study guides available that are perfect for personal study and cost around $12. She has mentored me on such subjects as time management, disciplined Bible study and prayer, organization, and family life. A study well worth anyone's time is A Woman After God's Own Heart® and its companion Growth and Study Guide. It can be purchased as a paper back book with a separate study guide or by dvd series with a workbook--both options are fabulous.

* More favorites:
Liz Curtis Higgs' Loved By God - Trusting His Promises and Experiencing His Blessings Leader Kit . Dvd based study with workbook.

Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World and Having a Mary Spirit by Joanna Weaver are both trade paper books with study guides included.

Ponder these questions today:
1. Am I studying God's Word like I would like to?
2. What is stopping me from consistent study?
3. What can I do about it?

Pray Five Blessings

2009-04-19T14:47:00.000-05:00

The Wednesday night Bible study class I attend at church began Cheri Fuller's book, A Busy Woman's Guide to Prayer last week. Ever so often we take a break from curriculum based studies and meet as a book club--it's a nice change-up a few times a year.

Each week class participants read three chapters then gather on Wednesday night for discussion. Last week, our first chat, focused on the beauty and challenges associated with praying. It was uplifting to hear others share what they have learned concerning prayer over the years. Discussing the things of God with other believers is encouraging, inspiring, and challenging. It's mentorship at work!

I would like to share an excerpt from Cheri Fuller's A Busy Woman's Guide to Prayer dealing with praying for others. Angela, our teacher, challenged us to write B-L-E-S-S on an index card and put where we could see it often to remind us to pray. Try it too!

If you don't have this book, get a copy and join me in class Wednesday night--we'll be discussing chapters four through six.

Pray Five Blessings
from A Busy Woman's Guide to Prayer

It is possible in only five minuites to really cover a person in prayer and to petition for blessings over his or her life. Let's say your girlfriend Meghan is going on a mission trip to South Africa, and you want to support her in prayer. You can use the letters B-L-E-S-S as a springboard to pray for her body, labor, emotional, social, and spiritual needs--and to help you stay focused instead of being derailed by wandering thoughts. Here's how it might work:

Body: "Lord, strengthen Meghan physcially on her three weeks in Africa. Grant her safe travel and protection on the whole journey..."

Labor: "Father, bless Meghan's efforts as she teaches Bible school to the children in the villages. Bless her labor in assisting in rebuilding the church and working with the medical team..."

Emotional: "Help Meghan trust you so completely that she won't be afraid or worried, and so she can sleep peacefully at night..."

Social: "Though she's away from her family and friends, help her connect with the others on the mission team. Bring a friend to her so she won't be lonely."

Spiritual growth: "Help Meghan to trust in You, depend on You, and not lean on her own understanding. As she serves others, may she sense your presence in real ways and receive the reward of growing closer to you on this adventure."

Try praying five blessings for five minutes a day for someone or for yourself, and see what God does.

Spring Cleaning Notebook

2009-04-14T08:51:00.000-05:00

It's time for spring cleaning and the first step is getting organized. As a busy homeschooling mom, it's hard for me to drop everything and spend a week deep-cleaning. Spring cleaning has to be eaten like an elephant--one bite at a time.

Make a list. Use a single subject spiral notebook as cleaning command center. Allocate a page per room, including the garage and front and back yards. Go room by room through your home listing everything that needs to be done. List small items such as changing light bulbs to larger chores such as painting, new curtains, or needed furniture. Don't forget to list cleaning chores such as dusting, cleaning ceiling fans, steam-cleaning carpet, and closet organization. The key here is to be through and detailed. If you need new towels in the kid's bathroom--write it down.

Assign chores. Write the initials of a family member in the margin beside the chore.

Set aside time weekly to focus on spring cleaning. Sure, some items will be weekly such as cleaning toilets and vacuuming but in the process many gnawing projects will be completed. Some projects listed will be both costly and time-consuming. Do not let their presence on the list bring discouragement. Instead, allow them to serve as reminders when shopping clearance centers. Also consider these items as prayer requests. Pray about the projects and wait patiently for the Lord to provide instead of whipping out a credit card. It is wonderful to mark off a listing knowing that the Lord intervened.

Spring cleaning is necessary to maintain our homes in a balanced and organized manner. By working from a spring-cleaning notebook, progress can be tracked, the whole family can be involved, and before long it will be done!

I Bow

2009-04-12T19:57:00.000-05:00

Today is Easter.

Bumblebees buzzed as I snapped pictures of the kids in their Easter finery. Easter candy gobbled quickly by little mouths. Warm apple pie and ice cream for Easter dessert. Lunch dishes in the sink.

A busy day. Church, lunch, taking E to the movies this afternoon, supper.

Playing outside, playing inside. Aliens fought Hotwheel cars while video games beeped and Barbie dolls received make-overs.

It has grown quieter as sleepy eyes and yawns have given way to sweet dreams.

Today is Easter.

I sit at my Savior's feet in adoration and awe.

In the noisy distractions of daylight, He is here.

In the stillness of night He is here.

He is my only Way, Truth, and Light.

I cannot go to the Father except through Him.

My knees bow, my tongue confess that He is Lord.

He is the Word made flesh.

He died and rose again.

He forgave all my sins.

He set my heart free to run in the path of His commands.

His name is above all others.

He is my Savior.

Before Him I bow.

Jesus.

"I will sing to the Lord all my life; I will sing praises to my God as long as I live. May my meditation be pleasing to Him, as I rejoice in the Lord." Psalms 104:33,34

Favorite Online Listening

2009-04-08T22:35:00.000-05:00

I like listening to online radio when I'm working on Mentoring Moments for Christian Women projects. Here are my bookmarked favorites:

The Edge theedgeradio.net (This is missionaries Chuck & Sherry Quinley's station)

Air 1 air1.com

WWEV wwev.org

KLOVE klove.com

When I want to hear teaching Oneplace.com is the place I go. Here you can listen to a variety of Christian speakers and pastors for free. Of course my favorite women's mentoring podcasts are those at MentoringMoments.net.

Do you have a favorite online station? I'd love to hear about it!

Let Me Re-introduce The Christ

2009-04-02T15:00:00.000-05:00

If you cannot view the video, go to Oasis.

Is the Cross False Advertising?

2009-03-31T19:09:00.000-05:00

A few weeks ago I was looking at books for my children in a Christian bookstore. The special sale item was an Easter picture book for $5--great price and perfect for my 4 year-old. Thumbing through the book, I was shocked to see the only reference to the crucifixion were the words "and Jesus went to die." The picture on the page showed Jesus carrying a cross, walking up a hill.

No retelling of all he endured leading up to the cross and completely leaving out the events during the crucifixion. In our politically correct society let us not become a PC Body of Christ too.
What are believers to do with Christ and the cross?

First, we are to correctly tell His-tory. I can see book publishers gathered around storyboards discussing the graphic nature of the Easter story being too much for preschoolers. Someone probably speaks up to say '...and if we're not careful it could offend some readers.'

Has the cross and Christ's atoning sacrifice become too embarassing and hard to swallow for some? Apparently it has...

The Easter story is not a sweet and compact cross with lillies and bunnys. It's a brutal,bloody,gory,gut-wretching story that does not end at the cross. The Easter story is the story of our freedom as believers. Without the cross there is no hope for you and I--that is if you believe the Bible. As watering down the gospel increases within segments of the church community--we must stand firm and teach our children the TRUE, COMPLETE story of Jesus Christ.

It's hard to imagine a well-known author, speaker, and pastor saying the atonement of Jesus is nothing more than false advertising. McLaren is just one in a growing sea of emergent church voices who are leading believers astray with their new consumer-friendly Jesus who sends no one to hell because all roads (all religions) lead to him.

Let us remain diligent to teach the truth of God's word to our children--the complete and uncensored version that leads to life eternal.

As the emergent church raises their voice in hopes of diminishing the significance of Jesus' atoning blood, let us raise ours with the truth of the gospel that sets people free from sin and death.

"This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood." Romans 3:22-25

Tomorrow, let me re-introduce you to the Christ...

Not Giving Way to Fear

2009-03-26T13:35:00.000-05:00

One of my biggest struggles this year, my first year to homeschool, has been keeping fear at bay.

Am I doing this right? Are my children learning? Is it okay to stay on one math concept until my child understands it and not plow ahead like they have been used to in public school? Is stepping outside the textbook and digging deeper going to throw us off schedule? Am I smart enough to do this? Am I teaching the right way? Are the kids getting it?

There have been those who have encouraged me along the way--and those who have gone out of their way to tell me homeschooling is a mistake. Oh, yes--the enemy has worked hard to try and undermine my faith in what I know the Lord has called me to do--and worked through well meaning people.

Starting out I thought it would be easier, the challenges fewer, and the nay-sayers non-existent. What I have learned is the constant faithfulness of the Lord. Sure, there have been days I've wanted to send them all back to public school. Days when it seemed like no one was progressing in their work and days when I was tired. On balance we've had more days when concepts that initially were a challenge were quickly conquered. What began as a slow year has begun to move at a quicker pace as the kids are starting to enjoy the learning process and we're finding a good routine. To have a self-proclaimed hater of reading beg to go to the library because they've read all their books is just one example of progress.

I've learned several things this year and the first one has been to give it all to God--the fear, the questions, bad days, and good days. It's been a year of transition for our entire family. It has opened my eyes to weak areas that I may not have caught in the busyness of our life prior to homeschooling. Oh, don't get me wrong, we're busier now than ever, but I have more one on one time with each child. I thank God for allowing me to see areas that need pruning and cultivation in the hearts of my children while they are still young.

The following scriptures were included in an eletter for homeschoolers. I do not remember who compiled the scriptures or I would give credit to them for their encouragement. As always, God's Word is a source of peace and instruction.

"Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you." (1 Peter 5:7)

"Say to them that are of a fearful heart, be strong, fear not." (Isaiah 35:4)

"Fear not; for thou shalt not be ashamed: neither be thou confounded; for thou shalt not be put to shame." (Isaiah 54:4)"

For I know the plans that I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope." (Jeremiah 29:11-12, NASB)

"Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has chosen gladly to give you the kingdom." (Luke 12:32, NASB)

"For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." (2 Timothy 1:7)

"And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: and thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up." (Deuteronomy 6:6-7)

Marriage Blog Carnival

2009-03-24T22:53:00.000-05:00

Over on MMCW we are kicking off the upcoming May / June issue with a marriage blog carnival. Molly Evert is heading it all up--I guess you can say she is our ringmaster! Molly's written a great piece explaining what a blog carnival is all about:
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Our May/June issue of Mentoring Moments will be focusing on marriage. We'd like to do a Blog Carnival about marriage to go along with that month's theme.

What is a blog carnival?
In a blog carnival, individual bloggers write about a common theme, and submit their posts to the carnival host. The carnival host writes a post on their blog (in this case our MMCW blog) and embeds links to each submitted article. Readers can click on each link and read what many others are saying about the topic at hand.

Why participate in a blog carnival?
A blog carnival is a great way to build our community at Mentoring Moments blog. We want to hear what you are saying! We can encourage one another by sharing what God is teaching each of us about marriage. This is also a great way to draw some traffic to your own blog.

What do I need to do?
The deadline for submitting an article to the May/June Marriage Carnival is Monday, April 13th. You can write a new post on your blog and send us the link, or you can even choose an old post about marriage from your archives! The only requirements are that the article be about marriage, that it be uplifting (no husband bashing!) and that it be written from a Christian perspective.

There is a form at the bottom of the blog post, as well as in the sidebar of the blog, that contains all the information you need to participate. Just click the link that says "Submit an article to this carnival". Then page down until you see a short form that enables you to submit the specific URL for your post. We'll publish this carnival May 11th.

Please take a moment and enter a post in the carnival! Visit our blog at:
http://mentoringblog.mentoringmoments.net/

Strength in Patience

2009-03-23T01:00:00.000-05:00

As a little girl I recall overhearing women at church talk about patience. Laughingly they would say, I know I need patience but I'm not praying for it because if I do the Lord will give me something to be patient about. Have you heard something similar?

What is patience? Simply put it is waiting without complaining.

In June I began homeschooling our three youngest children. Our first unit study was on patience. We studied plants and gardening as examples of waiting patiently. Even during the preparation time for our study I became awakened to the strength the Lord gives us through patience.

Instead of avoiding patience, we are learning it should be firmly established in our hearts. It's the key to having lasting spiritual fruit growing in our lives. Jesus says in Luke 8:15,"...on the good ground are they, which in an honest and good heart, having heard the word, keep it, and bring forth fruit with patience.'

Patience in this verse means what we've all probably heard, longsuffering endurance towards people. But did you know according to Spiros Zodhiates it is also 'associated with hope and refers to the quality that does not surrender to circumstances or succumb under trail?'

Patience is not a weak word, it is a position of strength in the Lord. It is staking out spiritual ground and not surrendering to the circumstances as the world may view them. It is having eyes focused with confidence and trust upon the Lord.

I love the phrase 'does not surrender to circumstances.' Is it any surprise that the enemy would want patience to be looked upon as a troublesome word? Can you picture with me Christians standing firmly in the midst of trial and saying, "I will not surrender or fall -- my confidence and trust is in the Lord Almighty, maker of heaven and earth." Those are not words the enemy wants to hear.

It has been exciting to learn alongside my children about patience. The seeds are being planted in their hearts and I believe it will bear fruit in our family.

It's a Crazy Life

2009-03-18T04:15:00.000-05:00

The last few weeks have been filled with craziness.

Last week, all four kids were sick with a virus. When they recovered, I caught it!

Incase you haven't visited Mentoring Moments for Christian Women lately, hop on over and check out the new March / April issue. Loi shares her cinnamon bun cake recipe which is great. I made it a few weeks ago and the entire family loved it. It's one of those desserts that's great warm or cold.

There's plenty of thought provoking articles this month too. Molly Evert has a great piece on raising boys, Carla Anne Coroy shares wonderful cost cutting strategies for the bathroom and grocery store, and I even wrote a piece on stress-free Easter baskets.

Over on the blog (have you visited the blog?) MMCW has a great give-a-way this month. This month's drawing is for Scripture Stickies--scriptures printed on post-it style notes. They are perfect to stick around the house and aid in memorization. All you have to do to enter is comment on the give-a-way blog! It's simple!

I am Patrick, a sinner...

2009-03-17T03:00:00.000-05:00

"I am Patrick, a sinner, most uncultivated and least of all the faithful and despised in the eyes of many." Patrick of Ireland

Patrick of Ireland would not recognize the world of 2009 compared to the one he lived in around 387 to 461 A.D. If Patrick were alive today I cannot help but think he would be a bit put out with the title of saint and celebrations held in his honor. Patrick of Ireland lived a life consecrated to Christ alone, a life given to see his Savior glorified. Today parades are being held, Irish whiskey flows, shamrocks are shining, leprechauns are leaping, and everyone is wearing green.

Today's celebrations bring little honor to a man who gave his life to see souls saved from a sinners hell. Patrick lived and died to see men and women set free. His life was much more than it has been degraded to in today's society. Most do not know his powerful testimony--a man of God who's life is much more compelling than legends.

Growing up in an affluent home, Patrick's life was filled with servants and the carefree living of a young man in the Roman province of Great Britain. He was not a believer in Christ. Patrick's life changed in an instant when he and other boys were kidnapped by Irish raiders who came into town. This practice was not uncommon and deeply feared among citizens. One thing was clear--no one kidnapped ever returned...ever.

Patrick's captors sold him as a slave to a farmer in Ireland. For a sixteen-year-old who had never known hard work the treatment was doubly harsh as he was not prepared physically for his new life. For six years he tended sheep with rags barely protecting his body and starvation always close at hand. It was during this time that he came to know Christ. Much like David of the Old Testament, Patrick used his time as a shepherd to know God intimately. He learned God's voice and how to depend upon Him for everything.

After six years in captivity, the Lord spoke to Patrick in a dream instructing him to the coast where a boat would be waiting to take him home. Patrick faced two major obstacles: death if caught escaping and a treacherous 200 mile trek. Stepping out in faith, he began his dangerous journey with no map in a foreign land being guided by the Holy Spirit. As God had said, a boat awaited. When he asked if could go with the boatmen, the leader said no. Dejected and wondering what to do, he began to pray. As he was praying one of the boatman called out for him to join them.

Patrick was the first person his village knew to return home from captivity. His old life, while comfortable, did not long hold him. He began once more to hear the voice of God, this time calling him back to Ireland. The once young captive now returned to Ireland to share the Gospel that would set captives free from sin and death.

Anointed by God, Patrick often felt unqualified because of his lack of formal education in the scriptures. Despite his insecurities Patrick led thousands to Christ. His methods of evangelism was scorned and himself viewed as a radical by church leaders outside Ireland. Attempts were made to bring him in line with church form and tradition, but he resisted.

Patrick is believed to have died March 17, 461. It is interesting to note that following his death while the rest of Europe was plunged into the Dark Ages, Ireland experienced it's Golden Age of learning. During his ministry, Patrick placed emphasis on learning to read and write Greek and Latin, using abbeys and churches as schools. Following his death scholars, artists, and men of learning came from around the world to Ireland. It was during this time that beautiful illuminated manuscripts were created and advancements were made in science, math, and astronomy.

Patrick is called a saint but I think he probably wasn't too interested in titles. His life was lived to promote Christ, not himself and if he were alive today he would be evangelizing a lost world--probably along a parade route. Praise God for sending Patrick to Ireland and using him to share the Gospel that affected generations of families. Pray today for the lost in your country--and how you can be a modern day Patrick.

"Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature." Luke 16:15

"If I be worthy, I live for my God to teach the heathen, even though they may despise me." Patrick of Ireland

"Christ beside me, Christ before me, Christ behind me, Christ within me, Christ beneath me, Christ above me." Patrick of Ireland

An excellent family dvd to learn more of Patrick of Ireland is Patrick starring Liam Neeson as narrator and Gabriel Byrne as the voice of Patrick. I checked it out of the library and was impressed with the compelling docu-drama.

The Cost of Baggage

2009-02-24T12:10:00.000-06:00

The Cost of Baggage

I was at a scrapbooking retreat the first weekend airlines began imposing fees for baggage. One of the gals at the retreat had flown in from the North East. All of you scrapbookers know how heavy our supplies are--especially when packing for a weekend getaway. My friend was beside herself with frustration. It was going to cost about $100 to get everything home. She spent much of her time checking with UPS and Fed Ex in hopes of better pricing. She eventually split her supplies up and sent them home various ways to contain the cost.

Nowadays it's just a given--baggage costs money. Spiritual baggage costs us too. It costs us our peace and keeps us from healthy relationships with Christ and others. Knowing who we are in Christ begins with addressing our spiritual baggage in the light of God's Word and the knowledge of who Jesus Christ is in our lives.

Early on in my personal journey a wise friend counseled me to dig into the Word of God and learn all I could about Him. I began with studying the character of God along with His names. I must admit it has taken years for me to know God by all His names. Oh, I can tell you His names, but I did not REALLY know Him by each until faced with situations and in some cases, the opening of my spiritual baggage.

It was during times of need that He became my Jehovah-Jireh (Provider).
When I miscarried He was Jehovah-Shammah (The Lord is Present).
During times of sickness He is Jehovah-Ropheka (The Lord our Healer).
When I have faced fears He always been Jehovah-Shalom (The Lord our Peace).

It's one thing to have head-knowledge of God. It's an entirely different thing for that knowledge to move into our souls. Knowing who we are in Christ is knowing Who He Is and allowing Him to become reality in our lives. It begins on our knees in prayer and delving into His Word. For me it was also realizing He is much bigger than even the spiritual suitcase I had packed Him into!

Who is Christ to you?

This week pull out your concordance, grab a notebook and get your Bible. Learning more about Christ is exciting, rejuvenating, and powerful. The most exciting thing I've learned about my Savior is there is no spiritual bag that is too heavy, big, or ugly for Him. He opens it all and pours His love into areas I would never have believed I could have freedom in. I've learned--I'm learning--that the price He paid on the cross included all my baggage.

The wonderful thing is--He's covered the cost of your baggage too.

For online study resources on the names of God visit:
At Bible.org you will find an informative article on the names of God.

Navigators.org has an excellent free online study called Thirty Days of Praying the Names and Attributes of God

All That and a Bag of Chips

2009-02-20T08:00:00.000-06:00

Picture a stadium scene. You are running a race. From the packed stands you hear the cries of many people. Some shout, "That's a pipe dream, get real." Others say, "Prepare yourself for the worst." Not to be outdone, yet another group whispers, "She's not our type. Did you hear about her past?" Some don't bother to even stand as you run past, their silence and averted eyes say it all.

Joyce Landorf Heatherly describes a similar scenario in her book, Balcony People. Let's take our masks off for a moment, the one we women like to hide beind and talk.

How many will admit to feeling scrutiny, not as a teenager, but right now in life? And sadly enough, at the hands of other sisters in Christ? We've all been there, in the stands, saying and doing things that tear down instead of build up another's life.

Now, picture that balcony again. There is a section, it may seem small but the voices are growing. As you run by you see this group on their feet and as Joyce describes so beautifully they are shouting. "You and I are His children. I believe in you. I'm leaning way, way over your balcony railing; I'm waving my coat above my head, and I'm yelling above the frightening noises of your world, 'I love you! I believe in you and your abilities! You can do it! Keep at it. Keep on! God chose you before He made the world, and you know what? He's here beside me; yes that's right, He's here, and He's not sitting down. You are His child, He is your Father. His coat is off too, and we are both in your balcony cheering you on together!"

This reminds me of what happened a few years back when I attended a ladies conference in Atlanta with a group of women from my church. As one of the anointed speakers took the podium she asked everyone to stand and pair off in groups of two or three and join hands. I was expecting us to pray together, instead she asked us to look into one another's eyes and speak words of encouragement. She knew how starved many women are for affirmation that she asked her to repeat after her. As we began I thought to myself, 'this is corny.' By the time I spoke the third sentence I could feel the tears running down my checks. Looking at my two friends, they were crying too. It wasn't coincidence that we were standing in the balcony that day affirming one another in Christ.

Dear sisters, we need to take our masks off permanently, admit our needs while affirming and lifting one another up in prayer. I'm not talking about a quick prayer every now and again, but prayers of agreement with people who love you. Women who will hang banners over your balcony saying, 'You CAN do all things through Christ Jesus.'

Knowing who we are in Christ is critical; reminding one another is essential. God tells us that He uses the foolish to confound the wise, so even if you think it's corny, read aloud my encouragement to you as I recall the words from my day in the balcony. I'm the one in your balcony with the megaphone saying,

"Sister, I don't know what kind of day you are having. I don't know how your husband and children are treating you. What I do know is that YOU are a child of God. YOU are special and called by God, not by chance. He sees YOU and His heart skips a beat. YOU are His daughter. Never forget YOU are the daughter of the King, part of a royal priesthood. He has given YOU life, peace, and joy through Christ Jesus. He has made YOU the head and not the tail. He goes before YOU to prepare YOUR way for so great is His concern and love for YOU. He called YOU, anointed YOU, and gifted YOU. YOU are an overcomer in Christ. When He hears YOUR voice, He stops to listen. YOU make His eyes sparkle and His toes tap. He is enthralled by YOUR beauty. YOU are His precious child and He has made YOU more than a conqueror. You are All That and a bag of chips too to our Father God."

Remind your sweet friends who they are in Christ. From our balconies let's proclaim the great love and mercy of Christ, reminding one another that we truly are daughters of the King.

"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith..." Hebrews 12:1-2 (NIV)

Who Am I?

2009-02-19T08:00:00.001-06:00

Do you know who you are in Christ? Do you know what God says in His Word about you? Dr. Neil Anderson in his book Victory Over the Darkness compiled a wonderful reminder list straight from Scripture.

I am accepted. John 1:12
I am God's child. John 15:15
As a disciple, I am a friend of Jesus Christ. Romans 5:1
I have been justified. I Corinthians 6:17
I am united with the Lord, and I am one with Him in spirit. I Corinthians 6:19-20
I have been bought with a price and I belong to God. I Corinthians 12:27
I am a member of Christ's body. Ephesians 1:3-8
I have been chosen by God and adopted as His child. Colossians 1:13-14
I have been redeemed and forgiven of all my sins. Colossians 2:9-10
I am complete in Christ. Hebrews 4:14-16
I have direct access to the throne of grace through Jesus Christ.
I am secure. Romans 8:1-2
I am free from condenmation. Romans 8:28
I am assured that God works for my good in all circumstances. Romans 8:31-39
I am free from any condemnation brought against me and I cannot be separated from the love of God. 2 Corinthians 1:21-22
I have been established, anointed, and sealed by God. Colossians 3:1-4
I am hidden with Christ in God. Philippians 1:6
I am confident that God will complete the good work He started in me. Philippians 3:20
I am a citizen of heaven. 2 Timothy 1:7
I have not been given a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind. I John 5:18
I am born of God and the evil one cannot touch me. I am significant. John 15:5
I am a branch of Jesus Christ, the true vine, and a channel of HIs life. John 15:16
I have been chosen and appointed to bear fruit. I Corinthians 3:16
I am God's temple. 2 Corinthians 5:17-21
I am a minister of reconciliation for God. Ephesians 2:6
I am seated with Jesus Christ in the heavenly realm. Ephesians 2:10
I am God's workmanship. Ephesians 3:12
I may approach God with freedom and confidence. Philippians 4:13
I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me.

Fearless
Watch this down to earth teaching on who we are in Christ by Lisa Bevere and Joyce Meyer.

People-Pleaser

2009-02-16T23:17:00.000-06:00

I heard about an online career test offered by a Christian ministry. The directions were simple--answer the questions and receive a list of possible careers suited to my personality. Taking the test was easy enough, but I was not prepared for the answer I received.

Our system cannot adequately complete your career profile.

What!? It took me 20 minutes to go through the test and now there's a glitch in the system?

Apparently, I was the glitch.

The system could not compute my answers because they were too generalized. Their suggestion--I get to know myself better because the answers reflected someone who worked hard to please others.

Shock. Aggravation. Admittance.

I knew a simple computer program had nailed me. In it's sterile computer language it had gone straight to the heart of the matter. I was a people-pleaser.

Being a people-pleaser is hard work. Being everything to everyone and doing it all to perfection was exhausting. While I admitted the program was correct I was helpless to do anything about it. Ask God? No way--I was working too hard to show Him how good and perfect I was. If He knew I was a people-pleaser He might be upset.

At that point in my life I could not tell you my favorite color, food, or Bible verse. I would answer these questions with what I knew to be your favorites. How had I allowed my life to come to this point?

I forgot who I was. Or, maybe I had never known.

For someone who had always know what she wanted out of life to be at a stage where I did not even know myself was devasting. It was the realization that I had no clue as to the person God created me to be that hurt the most.

It was a heavy burden I handed over to God that day. So heavy I could not lift it alone. The road to freedom was long but worth every step.

Where are you at today?
Do you spend your time trying to please others instead of the one who created you?

You have been created with specific gifts and talents that only you can do within the Body of Christ. The enemy would have us to believe we are insignificant and unimportant. In our society we are expected to be women who please everyone and do everything. That is not God's plan--that is the plan of the enemy. God has a specific plan for our lives and when we take our eyes off of Him and become distracted with people-pleasing we miss His will and often His divine opportunities.

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)

Facebook Friends

2009-02-12T08:00:00.000-06:00

Facebook Friends

Last week I joined the addiction--Facebook. What a hoot it has been re-connecting with friends from high school, childhood church friends, and family. People who I would never see or talk with because of time and distance are now part of my daily life once again.

I know when friends are cooking supper, enjoying the great outdoors, cleaning house, and surfing the net. Of course they also know what I'm doing when I make a post. Facebook reminds me of growing up in my hometown where everyone knew what everyone else was doing. After 20 years in the big city it is nice to enjoy that feeling once again with old friends.

My friend Michelle told me about finding a couple her parents were friends with sixty years ago on Facebook. Her father was in the army, stationed in the Panama Canal when they became friends with another young couple. Over time they lost touch. Now, sixty years later Michelle has put her mom in contact with dear friends.

Mentoring Moments for Christian Women has a new Facebook group too! If you have a Facebook account join our group. I'm still learning the ins and outs of what a group is suppose to do. From what I can tell we will be able to alert our group members of web and blog updates and have ongoing discussions. What I find the most fun is putting faces with names.

If you have a Facebook page let's be friends!

All I can now say is move over Myspace.

Practicing for the Rapture?

2009-02-10T11:12:00.000-06:00

Is it possible to practice for the rapture? Thank God we are not required to do the same as this crazy bunch--although I admit it looks fun! No matter how many times I see this video it continues to make me laugh--and I hope it brings a chuckle to you today!

Our Homeschooling Journey

2009-02-03T20:00:00.000-06:00

Homeschool Graces

I began homeschooling three of our children in June, took July off for surgery, and started back in August. In January our teenager came home from public school to join in. The most common comment I hear is "I don't know how you do it."

I don't know either!

It has been a fast-paced learning experience for me and the children. I believe it is the grace of God at work in our home--helping us to accomplish what we could not in our strength that makes homeschooling possible.

We've had our share of challenges such as when our curriculum took over a month to arrive and I had to come up with lessons. Most of what we have faced is probably normal for first year homeschoolers. Trying to find the perfect schedule and routine has been a source of constant re-evaluating.

Despite the challenges, it has been worth it all. I would like to share a few of the blessing we have experienced:

* The children are learning to pray and asking to lead prayer. It is exciting to watch their prayers evolve from 'bless all the super heroes today' to praying for the needs in our family and others. They have also began to lay hands on one another and pray for specific needs. Shyness to pray openly has long since passed and they are gaining confidence and boldness.

* They are sharing prayer requests and praise reports. It is important for children to experience the power of prayer and recognize God's hand in their own life. Recently my 9 year-old shared during our devotion time she had not felt well and prayed, asking God to heal her. She said her stomachache stopped and she felt much better. It is not just Mom and Dad's prayers being answered--it is their prayers.

* Deeper interest in school. Instead of just doing assignments, they are digging deeper and asking if we can find out more. Last year the word hate was used numerous times in regards to school--not the case now. Just today one child spent all their free time researching a great American because they wanted to learn more.

* A more peaceful home. We are no different from any other family. We have good days and not- so-good days. Since our homeschooling journey began we have consistently had more peace. Peace is something we strive and work at daily.

You may not be a homeschooling Mom. I am not one who says homeschooling is the only option Christian parents in their right mind should chose. We have had godly public and private school teachers whom the Lord has used mightily in the lives of our children. At this time homeschooling is the path the Lord has directed us to take. It is both a challenge and a joy. No matter the schooling situation, as Moms we all have challenges. Thank the Lord for His grace that does more than we can ever realize in all our unique situations.

"Now all praise to God for His wonderful kindness and His favor that He has poured out upon us, because we belong to His dearly loved Son. So overflowing is His kindness towards us that He took away all our sins through the blood of His Son, by whom we are saved; and He has showered down upon us the richness of His grace--for how well He understands us and knows what is best for us at all times." ~ Ephesians 1:6-8 (Living Bible)

Modern Telling of Robert Robinson's Search for Joy

2009-01-27T20:17:00.000-06:00

In 1757 Robert Robinson wrote the beloved hymn Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing. This video illustrates Robinson's struggle with finding the joy he had when he wrote the hymn. Faith and perseverance -- Lord grant more today.

Pro-Life for Life

2009-01-26T15:31:00.000-06:00

Pro-Life for Life
Last week on the steps of Georgia's capital building in Atlanta a pro-life rally was held in honor of pro-life week. I was unable to attend but I plan to make it a yearly tradition.

For a 12th grade project I was given the topic of abortion. Mind you this was a public high school. My teacher loved controversial subjects and debate in her class. The topic of abortion did not bring heated discussion as most of us came from Christian homes and immediately recognized abortion as murder. Nowadays it would be a different story. A young Christian girl would not be allowed to explain the horrific medical procedure inside a school classroom.

It reminds me of my first interview with the director of an abortion clinic. I jumped at the assignment and was ecstatic when the interview was granted. There I was--a 20 year-old--walking into an abortion clinic. I still recall shivering with nervousness as I signed in--just like the other women of various ages in the clinic. They probably thought I was there for an abortion. I was certain they were.

As I sat in the waiting room every fiber of my being was crying inside. I looked at the women hesitantly, not wanting to look directly into their eyes. If that happened I knew all bets would be off and I'd be sobbing and crying out like John the Baptist.

The atmosphere was heavy with spiritual darkness. Patients were calmly called in for their appointments. I began to pray as I realized that I was in a place pro-lifers are not allowed access. No way was the opportunity to pray INSIDE an abortion clinic NOT going to happen! Sitting in my seat I began to pray for each and every woman (and some men) that day. I prayed for their salvation, protection, and the lives of their unborn children to be spared--in the name of Jesus. I did as my grandmother had taught me and pleaded the blood of Jesus upon everyone and the facility. And of course, for the clinic to close because women would begin to choose life over death.

My name was called and I was ushered to a typical office. The director was a young woman, not what I expected. I guess I thought she would be an old bra-waving feminist from the 1960's. It was 1989 and she only looked ten years my senior. She was friendly and prepared. I was too naive to be overly nervous--in my mind I was a tough reporter.

This abortionist taught me a few things that day:

1. I recognized as an adult total deception in the life of an individual. She was deceived and loving it. This was new to me. Wasn't people suppose to see the error of their ways and repent?

2. She was nice. She wasn't what I expected and I was unprepared for that. Had she been rude it would have been easy. She was as passionate in her beliefs as I in mine. My words would not change her--only the power of God. I saw first hand that my job was to pray--fervently.

3. She was actively seeking to recruit me just as I was seeking to convert her. I realized that had I not known the Lord and His Word I could have been pulled in by deceptive reasoning.

I do not remember her name but I still pray for her. I hope the years have brought her closer to knowing Jesus. I pray she knows His forgiveness and grace despite her past.

The meeting went as well as expected. A hot-headed 21 year-old and an abortion clinic director. Sparks flew. She told me I was young and she knew I was just asking the questions I was told to ask. I told her I wrote my own questions. Our last words went something like this....

Director: Why do you not believe it is our right as women to control our own bodies?

Me: Because I am a Christian. God formed my body. He gives us life and it is His decision to take it--not mine because that would be murder.

The interview was pretty much over at that point. Well, after I told her I hoped she would change her ways and save lives instead of take them.

I wrote the article. Ran a picture of an aborted baby on the front page of the newspaper. Printed the health department reports showing unaccounted for medicine, unsanitary conditions including blood left in sinks and dusty ceiling fans above the abortion tables. Took irate calls from people who did not like seeing aborted babies while reading their morning paper and eating breakfast. Then, was fired two weeks later.

As women of God we must not silence our voices. We have the awesome responsibility to teach and train not only ourselves, but our children. They need to know why abortion goes against the nature of God. It is sin just like adultery, stealing, and gluttony. Sin is sin. We need to educate ourselves on the various forms abortion has morphed into these days -- stem cell research, end of life issues, and the ethics of human cloning.

We must remind ourselves that God's grace is sufficient for those who made the decision to abort their babies. The world cheers their decision to have an abortion and turns it's back on them when the enormity of what they've done hits home. It is our responsibility--yes, responsibility to love, encourage and point these women to Jesus. By grace we are all saved.

Pro-lifers are viewed through the eyes of Eric Rudolph these days. We are not nuts--he is. We are women of God whose time has come to pray, teach, and lift up our voice.

If you are a Christian and not sure of your thoughts on abortion I encourage you to study God's Word. Visit websites such as National Right to Life. Ask an older woman in church to teach you on the subject of abortion. If you are an older woman--know what you believe and why according to the Word of God.

In closing, stem cell research sounds great but do you realize it is life? It is not just a collection of cells. View this powerful testimony...

2009-01-16T23:18:00.000-06:00

Scrapbooking: A 2009 Project
Last Friday night I did something I haven't done in a while--scrapbook. Four years ago I was a Creative Memories consultant holding monthly crops and loving every moment of it. Since that time I have worked very little on my family albums.

My goal last year was to complete five albums: 4 family albums and our youngest son's baby album. I completed maybe 15 pages in 2008. This project is renewed for 2009. While the goal of having a neat row of albums on a bookshelf is good, the real reason I want this project complete is to clean out a closet. Ten large boxes represent ten years of photos and memorabilia longing to find its home in an album. When those boxes are gone I'll be able to see the carpet.

Another reason--all the scrapbooking supplies. No need for a consultant -- I have more stickers and die cuts than one person needs to own. I need to use all those supplies up.

While I enjoy scrapbooking, it is not exactly a hobby. It's a project to encourage my family. While some scrapbook for the fun of it--creating beautiful elaborate pages,mine are much different. My albums are much simpler than most.

Most of us do not have time to sit down and start a project that cannot be finished in a few hours. Instead, we have to plan it--and pray over it. Pray over it? Yes, of course. We take what we consider big things to God and often leave off things we feel are too simple as a matter of not wanting to bother Him.

I would like to encourage you to take those projects that you seem to never have time for to the Lord. Ask Him if they are of any importance to Him. You may be surprised that He can give you strategies and opportunities to complete them. Or, He may let you know that it is something to not concern yourself with for this season of life. Last year was not the season for scrapbooking in my life. This year it looks like there will be a monthly opportunity for me to scrapbook.

What are your 2009 projects? I'd love to hear about what you're working on this year.

Fave Cookbooks

2009-01-15T21:45:00.000-06:00

Fave Cookbooks
I read a listing recently of the best cookbooks of 2008. I recognized the names of two of the chefs and none of the cookbooks. It made me think about my favorite cookbooks and the fact that they are probably unheard too.

Calling All Cooks:

Telephone Pioneers of America-Alabama Chapter (1982)
My mother gave me this cookbook when I married, 20 years ago. The yellow paperback covers are long gone. It is a compilation of recipes from phone company employees in Alabama. Kristie Markham, a high school BFF, was also given this cookbook when she married, 19 years ago (see I remember!). When I'm looking for a recipe I'll call Kristie and she always says, 'have you checked the yellow cookbook?' At over 700 pages, it is filled with the best of the best down-home Southern recipes you can find. I was amazed when I did a quick Amazon search and found it. Equally amazing is it is the first in a series of four cookbooks! There are no pictures in this cookbook but I have yet to make a recipe from it that was not fantastic.

Feasting from the Master's Bounty:

The Ladies Ministeries of Hamilton Church of God
This cookbook is a sentimental favorite because I can look through and recall women who mentored me in the Lord. A former Sunday School teacher, a friend's mother, the pastor's wife--their favorite recipes are all here. Besides their memory, I can still remember their wonderful cooking! This is a cookbook I go to often for family favorites such as my Mom's banana pudding recipe. Sorry, this cookbook is long out of print.

A Taste of Heaven: Duluth Church of God Women's Ministry
Now these women know how to cook! Sister Martha Jo Hansard's chocolate pie (old fashion cooked version) is my husband's favorite. The mix of old style Southern recipes with new favorites makes this my most used cookbook of late. If you would like a copy you'll have to contact the Duluth Church of God in Duluth, Georgia to see if they have any left in stock. I believe the cost is $15.

Apron's Simple Meals

This binder style cookbook comes from Publix grocery store. Filled with simple 30 minute meal recipes covering breakfast to dinner, it also includes plenty of good desserts. Most of the recipes are healthy. The binder with a year of recipes is $5.99 and can be purchased in the grocery store. I enjoy stopping by their cooking counter to try out the receipe of the day--and picking up a new recipe for my binder for free. I particularly like their fish recipes which are fast and easy.

Taste of Home Annual Recipes
Quick Cooking Annual Recipes by Taste of Home
My all-time favorite cookbook series comes from Taste of Home magazine. Early on I fell in love with Taste of Home magazine but did not like the clutter of more magazines. Besides, I found I was tearing all the recipes out! Instead of ripped pages I decided in 1999 to wait until the end of the year and purchase the recipe book. It started with Taste of Home and published Quick Cooking magazine, I had to have those annual recipes too. The books are filled with photos, marvelous recipes, and helpful hints. I received these cookbooks until 2007 when I realized that I had more cookbooks and recipes than I could make in a lifetime. The Quick Cooking books are a particular favorite as they include a Freezer Pleaser section of recipes that are perfect to make ahead and freeze.

My favorite cookbooks may not be on the top cookbooks of 2008 list but I adore each one. I would love to hear about your favorite cookbooks too -- they may find their way into my collection this year!

America Online's Top Cookbooks of 2008
The Paley's Place Cookbook by Vitaly Paley and Kimberly Paley
Eat Me: The Food and Philosophy of Kenny Shopsin by Kenny Shopsin and Carolynn Carreno
Cooking: 600 recipes, 1500 photographs, and one kitchen education by James Peterson
Made in Spain: Spanish Dishes for the American Kitchen by Jose Andres
A Day at elBulli by Ferran Adria
Martha Stewart's Cooking School: Lessons and Recipes for the Home Cook by Martha Stewart
Milk: The Surprising Story of Milk through the Ages by Anne Mendelson
Urban Italian: Simple Recipes and True Stories from a Life in Food by Andrew Carmellini
A Platter of Figs and Other Recipes by David Tanis
Cooking with Curtis: Easy, Everyday and Adventurous Recipes for the Home Cook by Curtis Stone
The Modern Baker: Time-Saving Techniques for Breads, Tarts, Pies, Cakes, and Cookies by Nick Malgieri
The Art & Soul of Baking by Cindy Mushet
BakeWise: The Hows and Whys of Successful Baking by Shirley O.Corriher
Enchanted Thyme: Book 1 The Delicious Adventure Series by Ariane Smith with recipes by Chef Michael Wilsom

Fasting Part II

2009-01-06T22:42:00.000-06:00

Fasting, Part II
Many churches now begin the new year with a call to prayer and fasting which is excellent. Just this week I saw a billboard on the expressway advertising a new book by a local pastor. The slogan is Join the Fasting Movement.

Arthur Wallis' book, God's Chosen Fast: A Spiritual and Practical Guide to Fasting is an good resource for those with questions on how-to fast. Wallis' discusses three forms of fasting: the normal fast, the absolute fast, and the partial fast.

The normal fast is "abstaining from all food, solid or liquid, but not from water."

The absolute fast is "abstaining from drinking as well as eating." This fast is for never more than three days. Examples given from scripture are Ezra who 'spent the night, neither eating bread or drinking water; for he was mourning over the faithlessness of the exiles' (Ezra 10:6). Queen Esther called an absolute fast in Esther 4:16. "Hold a fast on my behalf, and neither eat nor drink for three days, night or day. I and my maids will also fast as you do." From the New Testament we find Saul of Tarsus in Acts 9:9 abstaining for three days. Wallis' says in his book that the absolute fast is "an exceptional measure for an exceptional situation. It is something usually reserved for spiritual emergencies."

The partial fast is an "emphasis upon restriction of diet rather than complete abstention." This style of fasting is popular right now and known as The Daniel Fast. Many believers are following Daniel's example and "eating no delicacies, no meat or wine". In simple terms, a Daniel fast is meals consisting of fruits and vegetables.

Growing up I recall my church holding a corporate Daniel fast. As a child I thought it should have been called the green bean fast because that is all we seemed to have for supper during that time. Over the last several years there seems to be an increase in what is considered right to eat. What began as fruits and veggies has progressed to a specialized foods list that can bankrupt a grocery budget and have one spending more time reading labels than God's Word and praying.

We must remember John Wesley's word and be cautious, "Some have exalted religious fasting beyond all Scripture and reason; and others have utterly disregarded it." If the fun and focus is in planning new recipes to feed one's body during a fast there could be a problem. Once I even heard discussions on what energy drinks are fast-approved and which are not! Are we really fasting if we are going to extreme lengths to fill ourselves up?

Tonight I received an email from my friend Page describing her time of fasting and prayer this week. She wrote, "How timely for us right now to be reminded that saying no to some things is saying yes to what God wants to show us. We are making a great trade."

Stay focused on the Lord and the fast He has called you to during these days. Dig deep into His Word and spend time in prayer. Do not allow anything to take precedent over drawing near to the Lord. Remember, it is all about Him!

Stop the World, Fasting Part 1

2009-01-02T21:44:00.000-06:00

Stop the World
Fasting, Part 1
My friend Rhonda has a saying in regards to disciplining her children--stop the world. What she means is dealing with a matter on the spot. It is inconvenient at times, but it gives children clarity when an offense or problem is fresh. No comments such as wait until we get home are made. Children are taken aside and the issue is addressed right then.

When it comes to the spiritual discipline of fasting it's much the same. Fasting is about stopping the world and allowing God to work in our inward being on the spot by removing distraction and focusing upon Him. Fasting has become popular in some circles and the increased emphasis is opening doors to teach fasting to believers who have never practiced this spiritual discipline.

Henry Blackably says in the study Experiencing God that believers are to ask God where He is at work and join Him. It is not our position to tell God to join us. This is a subject that quickly arises with fasting. It is important to know what fasting is not:

* It is not demanding a list from God.
* It is not about a formula for dieting.
* It is not about getting to know a God only interested in the external areas of our life.
* It is not about winning the heavenly lottery and receiving financial blessings.

Richard Foster says in Celebration of Discipline, "We must always remember that the path does not produce the change; it only places us where the change can occur. This is the path of disciplined grace."

That's what fasting is all about--stopping the world and putting ourselves before God so He can work in our lives as we pray and worship Him.

Foster goes on to quote Leo Tolstoy, "Everybody thinks of changing humanity and nobody thinks of changing himself." I joyfully agree with Foster as he observes, "Let us be among those who believe that the inner transformation of our lives is a goal worthy of our best effort."

Fasting is the road to personal revival and change. The greater blessing of fasting is coming out renewed and refreshed on the inside with the outward evidence of a changed life. As one comes closer to God change occurs. Sin is addressed, the mind renewed, increased love for the Lord and His Word can all be lasting results. In addition, fasting can unclog ears to hear His voice, open dimmed eyes to see clearly His vision, and put purpose to hands and feet for His ministry. And it all begins with removing the distractions of life by fasting and focusing fully upon the Lord.

The result of fasting is an inner transformation that exceeds any goals I set up on my own. It is about growing in the grace and knowledge of God. We must realize that eating a certain way or removing things from our lives for a period of time are just mechanics. One can fast days on end to no result. This is because it is not about getting, it is about knowing and worshipping God and allowing Him to change us.

Fasting should not be focused more on the process or blessings than the relationship. Just like Rhonda we should say stop the world and allow the hand of God to move freely in our lives today through fasting.

While a bit long I want to close with Richard Foster's eloquent explanation of fasting in Celebration of Discipline:

The Purpose of Fasting
Richard Foster, from Celebration of Discipline

It is sobering to realize that the very first statement Jesus made about fasting dealt with the question of motive (Matthew 6:16-18). To use good things to our own ends is always the sign of false religion. How easy it is to take something like fasting and try to use it to get God to do what we want. At times there is such stress upon the blessings and benefits of fasting that we would be tempted to believe that with a little fast we could have the world, including God, eating out of our hands.

Fasting must forever center on God. It must be God-initiated and God-ordained. Like the prophetess Anna, we need to be "worshiping with fasting" (Luke 2:37). Every other purpose must be subservient to God. Like that apostolic band at Antioch, "fasting" and "worshiping the Lord" must be said in the same breath (Acts 13:2). Charles Spurgeon writes, "Our seasons of fasting and prayer at the Tabernacle have been high days indeed, never has Heaven's gate stood wider; never have our hearts been nearer to the central Glory."

God questioned the people in Zechariah's day, "When ye fasted...did ye at all fast unto me, even to me?" (Zechariah 7:5) If our fasting is not unto God, we have failed. Physical benefits, success in prayer, the enduing with power, spiritual insights--these must never replace God as the center of our fasting. John Wesley declares, "First, let it (fasting) be done unto the Lord with our eye single fixed on Him. Let our intention herein be this, and this only, to glorify our Father which is in heaven..." That is the only way we will be saved from loving the blessing more than the Blesser.

Celebration of Discipline, 25th Anniversary Edition
By Richard Foster / HarperOne

Happy New Year!

2009-01-01T15:59:00.000-06:00

Happy New Year!

The first day of 2009 for our family has been filled with excitement. After days of burning and itching lips I awoke to what looked like a botox treatment gone wrong. I have to say that if I had any desire for puffy lips that has now changed.

I thought about posting a picture of my large lovely lips with the caption: Look what I got for Christmas! Just the thought made me laugh--which made my lips hurt--so I decided against it.

After eating boiled shrimp and shrimp alfredo on several occasions this last week, choosing a crab cake burger at Ruby Tuesday's did me in yesterday. It's sad to think about life without shrimp, crab, scallops, and lobster. I don't put oysters or clams in the list because they are not favorites.

After a trip to the emergency room for a steroids shot I'm back at home pumped full of Benadryl. My children have found great humor in asking if I want shrimp for dinner tonight. Praise the Lord that salmon and catfish are not shellfish or I would just die!

Today begins 40 Days in the Gap with Mentoring Moments. If you haven't had a chance to read through this call to prayer and fasting check it out. In the coming days I will be writing on the power of fasting in the life of a believer. In some Christian circles fasting has become popular and faddish, focusing more on the process than the result in my opinion. Fasting is not about getting our way or following a legalistic formula. Fasting is a spiritual discipline that should be more than a once a year event but practiced throughout life. Whether you agree, disagree, or you're just curious I hope you'll join in the discussion.

Christmas Books

2008-12-05T19:01:00.000-06:00

Christmas Books

Each year at Christmas I choose a new book to be unwrapped and read on Christmas Eve. One year I thought it would be fun to unwrap a new game instead of a book. The kids were very vocal in their disappointment--they love having their Dad read them a new story each year.

Over the years some of our favorites include Max Lucado's Alabaster's Song, The Crippled Lamb, and Jacob's Gift. There is also Susan Wojciechowski's The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey and Ruth Bell Graham's One Wintry Night. The last few years we've read The Legend of the Christmas Tree by Rick Osborne and The Legend of the Candy Cane by Lori Walburg. I'm looking forward to reading all the blog carnival posts on Christmas reading as I have yet to chose a book for this year.

For family devotions we are reading Jotham's Journey by Arnold Ytreeide. From youngest to oldest, the kids are enjoying this Advent mystery adventure.

Jotham's Journey: A Storybook for Advent

Personally, I'm not reading any books related to the season. Maybe next year I'll have my act together enough to read a Christmas devotion. Currently I'm reading Susan Hunt's Spiritual Mothering: The Titus 2 Model for Women Mentoring Women. I just finished Ann Platz's great book, Queen Esther's Reflection, also dealing with mentoring.

Spiritual Mothering: The Titus 2 Model for Women Mentoring Women

By Susan Hunt / Crossway Books & Bibles

Hunt knows what women need-each other. Using Scripture and true stories from a Presbyterian congregation, Hunt demonstrates the model of the "mothering mandate" in Titus 2:1-5 and encourages you to develop and strengthen the bonds between older and younger women in your life.

Queen Esther's Reflection: A Portrait of Grace, Courage, and Excellence
By Ann Platz / New Hope Publishers
Discover how to transform your home, marriage, and work into a royal anointing! Platz uses the story of Queen Esther to explore spiritual beauty. You'll learn how to grow in excellence, graciousness, and humility; experience fasting and prayer; prepare for ministry to others; and more. An ideal mentoring resource. Includes study questions.

Festive Friday

2008-12-05T13:13:00.000-06:00

Grandma's Sandwich Bag Wreath

I had to share another wreath with you today. It's not pretty and probably would not have a taker at any yard sale but it's worth gold to me. Years ago this wreath hung on my Grandmother's front door. I'm sure some of you have memories of a similar wreaths.

The sandwich bag wreath was a big craft item back in the early 80s. My grandmother and her sisters all made them. What makes this one special is my grandmother was not crafty. I do not remember if Grandma made it all herself but I doubt it. I think I recall her saying it took a while to get all the sandwich bags on the coat hanger that was used as the frame.

When my grandmother passed away this was one of the items I took for my own. We hang Grandma's sandwich bag wreath on the garage door so the little bell tinkles each time we open and close the door. The kids love the wreath, and well I do too.

Grandma's favorite verse was Psalms 37:25:
"I was young and now I am old, yet I have never seen the righteous forsaken or their children begging for bread."

I'm reminded daily of God's faithfulness to my Grandmother who loved her Savior dearly.
I couldn't just post the photo here but had to make it my banner photo too.

Festive Friday

2008-12-05T12:52:00.000-06:00

Christmas
Wreaths

Over on MMCW we are doing our first blog carnival called Festive Friday: Christmas Wreaths. (Thank you Molly for setting it all up!) If you would like to share a photo of your Christmas wreath and along with a scripture or thought, hop on over and sign up!

It was with great excitment last year when dear friend Michelle called to say Hobby Lobby had marked all their Christmas decorations at 90% off. I was in heaven! I was able to purchase gorgeous wreaths retailing at $100 for just $10--now that's a bargain. My favorite is my new big purple peacock feather wreath. It's too nice to put on the front door where the elements will destroy it. Instead I've hung it in our dining room.

I'd love to see your wreath! Join our blog carnival over on MMCW and look at everyone's wreaths.

Christmas Music Favorites

2008-12-05T12:27:00.000-06:00

Christmas Music Favorites

We have several family Christmas traditions and two of them are collecting Christmas music and books. (I'll have another blog later today on Christmas books.) At the start of the Christmas season we begin listening to our new music along with old favorites. On Christmas Eve the children unwrap a new Christmas book that we read together after dinner.

This year things have been hectic and I have not purchased our new music but plan to get Casting Crown's Peace on Earth CD. You can watch a live version of I Heard the Bells on Christmas from the album at MMCW.

Our Christmas listening is eclectic to say the least. I enjoy unique Christmas CDS such as A Walton Christmas. This CD is a compilation of Christmas songs sung on the TV series The Walton's. Of course, it ends with the memorable family goodnights--goodnight Jim Bob.

Another favorite is A Christmas TV Dinner. It is another smorgasbord of songs taken from classic TV shows. Songs include Gene Autry & The Melody Ranch Gang singing Rudolph, The Red-Nosed Reindeer, the Brady kids singing Silent Night and my favorite--Ben, Little Joe, and Hoss Cartwright (from Bonanza) singing Merry Christmas, Neighbor. Both A Walton Christmas and A Christmas TV Dinner were bought years ago at Big Lots for around $3.

My all-time favorite is the instrumental Christmas in the Smoky Mountains featuring authentic Appalachian instruments. I love the sound of the dulcimer on this cd. The arrangements to uplifting songs such as O Come, All Ye Faithful and Good Christian Men, Rejoice is beautiful.

While it is not a Christmas CD, my family's favorite listening right now is New Life Worship's Counting on God CD by Integrity. New Life Church as been through some deep valleys over the last two years. Many of you will recall the fall of their former pastor Ted Haggard. Just a year later the church faced tradegy once more when an armed gunman came onto their campus and opened fire, killing two teenage sisters. This CD is a response to what this congregration has walked through and their confidence and declaration of their faith in Christ.

So, what's your favorite Christmas listening? I'd love to hear!
By the way, this post is part of a blog carnival hosted by Molly at counterculturalmom.blogspot.com. I'm new to all of this blogging business but this is a fun way to see chat via blogging on specific topics. If you would like to join, click on Molly's link and you'll see the box to enter your blog address!

Black Friday

2008-12-01T16:21:00.000-06:00

Christmas Shopping for Girls

Last year the number one requested item by our daughter was a Hannah Montana wig. By Christmas afternoon the wig was matted and frizzed beyond repair but our little rock star was bopping her way around the house in sheer delight. Hannah Montana is still a favorite of my daughter, but the real life actress Miley Cyrus has fallen from my graces as someone I want my daughter role-playing.

This year shopping for a nine year-old in an environment where little girls are bombarded with siren calls to dress, play, and act like adults is a challenge but not impossible. If you have a young daughter you know exactly what I mean--adult style clothing, dolls that look like prostitutes, and music that is still adult even if a child is singing it.

This morning I hopped online to my favorite girl site-- Americangirl.com. Today's Black Monday sales include free shipping on all orders plus an additional 10% off sale items. I was thrilled to pick up both the Molly and Samantha Mystery Party games. Similar to a dinner theatre, it is made for girls and perfect for birthday parties or any get together. At $4.50 each it was a bargain I could not pass up.

Another great item was the American Girl Mystery Puzzle. This is actually four 300 hundred piece puzzles that have glow-in the dark clues to solve a mystery.

If you have little girls, the Mini Magnetic doll sets at $5 are a steal. Perfect for Christmas but don't rule out putting up for birthday presents too. These make great travel games.

American Girl dvds have free shipping today too--including the new Kit Kittridge movie. Family friendly, all AG movies have a good plot that everyone can enjoy. My boys liked the Kit Kittridge movie which deals with a family facing the challenges of the Great Depression.

American Girl products can be pricey so sales like this are worth taking advantage of for Christmas and future presents. If you are looking for dolls that will inspire play and learning you may want to look at the doll and book sets. Dress-up is never so much fun as when girls and dolls can dress alike--American Girl has this done this right. Clothing is age appropriate for dolls and girls.

Going on and on like this about girl gifts would lead one to think I do not have three boys. My two younger boys are easy to buy for--they want the same of everything they see. My teen is another story all together. Toys for a 15 year-old are costly to say the least. American Eagle Outfitters has free shipping on all orders today with some great sales on sunglasses, necklaces, hats, jeans, and shirts.

What are your favorite Black Friday sales sites? Pass them along--I'd love to hear about them and of course take advantage of more sales tonight!

2008-11-26T19:34:00.001-06:00

Sweet Potato Pie

Cooking for Thanksgiving is a challenge--I seem to always forget something. Last year I forgot the cranberry sauce. This year I did not read the thawing directions for our turkey. I bought it yesterday and put it in the fridge. My dear husband informed me an hour ago that it will take four to five days to defrost. Hamburgers anyone?

I love Thanksgiving even if I'm not the perfect Southern cook. Big dinners are what we do well in the South. A Thanksgiving staple along with turkey and dressing is sweet potato pie. I heard Sean Hannity say this week he married a girl from Alabama but had never had sweet potato pie. That's almost a sin!

While at the hair salon today all the buzz was Thanksgiving dinner. I learned about a cheesecake that has to be made standing on a step-stool using dark and white chocolate, a black walnut apple bundt cake, and even a discussion on the beauty of chocolate pecan pies. All the women agreed on one dessert that was not on their favorite list--pumpkin pie. Yes, I even put myself in this category.

Maybe it's that if you ever try sweet potato pie there is just no comparison--or going back. Sweet potato pies look like pumpkin pies but the taste is completely different. When eaten with a huge dollop of Cool Whip, there just isn't any better dessert for Thanksgiving.

If at this late hour you are looking for an easy Thanksgiving dessert, try sweet potato pie. Here's the basic sweet potato pie recipe I use:

Sweet Potato Pie
1 cup cooked mashed sweet potatoes
3/4 cup sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla
2 tablespoons melted butter
2 eggs, beaten

Mix all the ingredients until smooth. Pour into a pie shell and bake at 350 degrees for about 45 minutes or until the pie is firm. Let cool. Serve with Cool Whip.

If you like a richer dessert--and have a bit more time then you'll love my mother's Sweet Potato Paradise Pie. I've made it before and it's always a hit. The two layers inside it are also pretty on the plate when it is sliced.

Paradise Sweet Potato Pie

1 (9-inch) unbaked deep-dish pie shell, 1 (8 oz.) package softened cream cheese, 3/4 cup sugar divided into a 1/4 cup and a 1/2 cup, 1/2 teaspoon vanilla, 3 eggs divided into 2 beaten eggs and 1 egg, 3 large baked sweet potatoes, 1 cup evaporated milk, 1 teaspoon cinnamon, 1/4 teaspoon nutmeg, dash salt. Combine cream cheese, 1/4 cup sugar, and vanilla. Blend in 1 egg. Spread cream cheese mixture in bottom of pie shell. Combine remaining ingredients; mix well. Carefully pour this mixture over cream cheese mixture. Bake at 350 degrees for 65 minutes.

My sweet potato pies are made. The homemade macaroni and cheese along with scalloped potatoes are waiting in the fridge. A dear, sweet, wonderful unnamed friend (Lori Lauth) brought me a yam casserole this afternoon. Got the rolls. The cranberry sauce is waiting patiently. Veggies on deck to be made in the morning along with the dressing. Even our poor turkey looks like he will be on time for dinner tomorrow. Apparently the turkey people think of everything--even people like me--and included quick thaw instructions. Thank goodness!

I'd love to hear about your Thanksgiving this year!

Blessings,
Kellie :)

P.S. If you're looking ahead to Christmas head on over to MMCW where we have posted Day 1 of our 12 Days of Christmas series. Day 1 is called Preparing Hearts for Advent. Advent is a wonderful way to usher in the spirit of Christ this Christmas--be sure to check it out!

2008-11-21T11:46:00.000-06:00

Living Authentically

I read a thought provoking article this week entitled The Culture War is Over: Thank God! Author Jud White made a challenging statement--we have lost the culture war and maybe it's a good thing. A good thing? White's premise is it's time to focus on living as Christ-followers in place of just labeling ourselves Christian.

The buzz word now-a-days is authenticity, but as White explains it's all about God's truth in our lives. How do you view God's truth? Are we teaching, sharing, extending it with love to unbelievers? George Barna in his book UnChristian shares shocking statistics that leave modern day Christianity looking less appealing than used car salesmen.

George Barna's results reveal that Christians have cheapened Christianity to church membership, denominational loyalty, and superficial Christianity. Just a tad harsh I think. Or, is it?

It would be easier to declare all this hog-wash if it wasn't that Barna's findings are based on research with those who do not call themselves Christian. That's right, unbelievers think of us in this light. Sobering statistics show that we are effectively losing the 18 to 41 age groups because of our lack of authenticity/truth.

We can blame it on culture. We can blame it on humanism. We can blame it on the mega church. We can even blame it on flaky believers reducing the Word to a feel good gospel that does not recognize the truth of hell. The fact is this is a sign of our times. Our enemy -- the Devil, Lucifer, Satan, angel of light, wolf in sheep's clothing, serpent, great deceiver--however you choose to address our adversary has been hard at work within our society. It's easier to blame losing the culture war on something or someone than to face the truth -- our authenticity before the world.

Living a life of authenticity begins with me. My life will not be judged according to what my society or culture thought was truth. I will face God based on the truth I know, share, and live according to God's Word. It comes down to me, God, and a relationship with Truth--Jesus Christ.

My late pastor, John Colbaugh, a gifted storyteller, had a way of taking a simple illustration and bringing it to life in light of God's Word. Here is one of his stories that illustrates our responsibility:

When we get to the end of our days and we're in line to stand before God we'll each be holding a paper bag. Some bags will be filled to overflowing, others will hold a few items. Still others will be empty. What do you want your bag to be-- filled or empty? I want my bag to be empty--completely empty. I want to stand in line with it thrown over my shoulder. When I stand before God I want to say here's my empty bag--I used every last gift and talent for You. I want to know that I held nothing back--I lived fully in Christ.

Are you living fully in Christ? Are you using all you have for the glory of God? Authentic Christians live a life focused on 'living dead to self, alive in Christ.' Our mission is to serve those in need -- reaching out and sharing the gospel one lost soul at a time. Saying the culture war is lost is not a bad thing. It means just like White said that we must put our focus on the true priority--living out the Gospel. As our world changes we need to recall Paul's words to the Philippians, "Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ." (Philippians 1:27)

Is the world ready for this? I think so. A few months back my church did something unheard of in today's modern church. They went street witnessing. Nothing fancy, no door prizes or free food. No music, puppets, or street drama. Just a small group (15 to 30) for five days spreading out across town. Two Muslim young men were saved at an outlet mall, a man working on a car asked Jesus into his heart after a 14 year-old shared the gospel. A 90 year-old woman prayed the sinner's prayer for the first time in her life. Not one person, not two, but over 500 men, women, boys, and girls were saved in a six day period in August by just sharing the gospel. And, they were all saved outside the church walls.

It's past time to put away masks and living with one foot in the world. We must move past the thinking that says church work is within the walls of the church on selected days of the week. The world recognizes a fake and we should not fool ourselves. It really doesn't take a research group to tell us that we need to get back to basics. Unbelievers need to meet a Savior who has all the answers. We know Him. The culture war to me was lost when we began trying to become more like the world than just live out our lives as testimony. Unbelievers need to see a difference in our lives--in my life.

I'd like to encourage everyone to join me today in asking the Lord to reveal weakness and bring strength and truth to those areas. When I begin to look honestly at my own heart and submit to the Lord and the truth of His Word, then unbelievers will see the light in my life. It will not be a culture war but a revival of God's love. A revolution!

What is in your bag? What has the Lord gave you to share authentically with unbelievers and influence a culture / nation / world for Christ? When we share, teach, preach, and live the truth we become authentic. It's time to empty our bags and live alive in Christ!

Following is a simple video on building relationships and living out our faith.

Thrifty Thursday

2008-11-19T23:18:00.000-06:00

Blessed to Be a Blessing

Tonight at church I listened as a sweet sister in Christ shared how someone is providing her family with a Thanksgiving dinner. A man came to where her family is living and said the Lord impressed him to do this for her family. My friend is a stay-at-home mom whose husband lost his job about six months ago. The time since has been hard, but as she shared, God has meet every need and continues to be good. After losing their home and now living with another family her faith and trust in the Lord continues to shine as a testimony.

This week as we go into the home stretch to Thanksgiving it is the perfect time to purchase items to give to others in need. Dinner rolls, vegetables, baking supplies, and turkey are just a few of the foods that will be on sale. Invite a family facing hard times to Thanksgiving dinner and send them home with groceries. Try something fun such as leaving groceries on the front porch, ring the doorbell and run. Of course make sure they are home so the food doesn't sit out too long and melts or spoils.

It's easy to think about basics, but also include cookie and cake mixes, chips and such for a nice treat. Fresh vegetables and fruits are especially good. When money is tight fresh foods are often overlooked in exchange for cheaper canned goods. Find out what their favorite soft drink is and include it.

Another idea is to purchase some fall decorations for the family you will bless. Wal-Mart has marked all their fall decorations down by at least 50%. Pick up a beautiful wreath for less than $10 or maybe some fall napkins for $1. Little things such as napkins or seasonal paper dessert plates can add festive note.

Over on Mentoring Moments for Christian Women we have an Abundant Living page. Some call it being thrifty others may say frugal living. I think it is truly living in abundance. All we have comes from God. We are a blessed nation with riches that those in some countries can only imagine. I have always believed we are blessed to be a blessing financially in our communities and world. Living abundantly is about living within our means so we have resources to bless others.

This week be a blessing!

Thrifty Thursday ~ Keeping Coupons Organized

2008-11-12T16:39:00.000-06:00

Keeping Coupons Organized
Kellie Renfroe

Most coupon organizers are too small and wear out quickly. Putting coupons in my purse makes a mess and I end up with a bottomless pit of crumbled coupons I can't find when needed. The manila file folder I used to keep coupons in was big, bulky, and ugly. What's a mom to do?

This summer friend Lori Lauth shared how she transferred all retail store coupons to a business card holder to keep in her purse. While I did not have a business card holder, my day timer did have an clear plastic page with a zip closure. Putting frequent shopper cards, restaurant coupons, and sale coupons in this quickly brought organization to my purse.

Next came the mountain of grocery coupons. Using a plastic accordion style file folder with velcro that I already had on hand gave my coupons a home of their own.

The tab dividers have been labeled for each of the coupon circulars found in the weekly newspaper. Smart Source, Red Plum, a tab for loose coupons, entertainment coupons, restaurant coupons, and the last tab is blank for current week sale flyers, scissors to cut out coupons, and weekly grocery list.

This is an old file folder bought at Wal-Mart about five years back for around $4.88. Now these types of folders can be found in decorative colors. I especially like the way it closes up--nothing falls out.

To keep my coupons up to date I spend about 10 minutes weekly doing coupon housekeeping.
* I clip all the restaurant coupons from new circulars and put either in file folder or holder in my purse (if I know we will be visiting soon).
* Write the date on the front of the circular (found on its spine) and file. I put the current week circular at the front.
* Throw out all the junk pages in the new circular as I look through it. You know the pages--labels, dolls, support shoes.
* Throw out last week's grocery sale ads and put in new ones.

Keeping my coupons organized as been a source of frustration over the years as system after system failed. It seems I've finally hit on a keeper! The folder is kept in the mini van so it is always available. I get it out once a week to make out our grocery list.

If you are wondering why I write the date on the front of the circulars and even keep them intact instead of clipping favorite coupons then you need to visit Abundant Living at Mentoring Moments for Christian Women. I use an online site, CouponMom.com, that matches up weekly sales with newspaper coupons. Besides deep discounts, items can even be had for free using this method. Another great site is The Grocery Game. Visit Abundant Living to learn more about this method of literally cutting your grocery bill in half.

Building our Home Library

2008-11-04T20:25:00.000-06:00

Building our Home Library

We have relied heavily this year on our local library for books. When we began homeschooling in June I quickly realized our home library was lacking and needed to become focused on learning versus just for entertainment purposes. It has been a challenge to add quality books without spending a fortune. The Lord has truly been wonderful in opening doors of opportunity to attain good materials.

The best books we've purchased have come from our library. They consistently offer books for just a quarter that cover a wide spectrum of subjects. Just today I added the following books to our library:

* Zig: The Autobiography of Zig Ziglar (hardback)
* The Greatest Generation by Tom Brokaw (hardback).
* A Field Guide to Homeschooling by Christine M. Field (trade paper)
* The One Year Book of Devotions for Kids #2 (trade paper)

And our two great finds today:
* The Audubon Society Field Guide to North American Trees
* The Audubon Society Field Guide to North American Insects and Spiders

For $1.50 we added some good books.

My daughter found a spider this afternoon and proudly announced it was a termite according to our new field guide. Praise the Lord she was wrong on that one! The books are already a hit and the kids can't wait to get outside tomorrow and begin naming trees and bugs.

Our library also sells paperbacks by the bag for $1.00. Most of the books offered are of no interest to me. What I plan to do is buy a few bags and trade them in at a local used book store where I receive credit for half of the book's value. In exchange I can add to our library with books of substance without breaking the bank.

Lastly, tonight I visited http://www.amblesideonline.org/ which offers books lists for those building living libraries in the Charlotte Mason style of home educating. While we do not teach Charlotte Mason, I do appreciate the site and plan to use it to compile a list of books to add to our library.

2008-10-31T11:28:00.000-05:00

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Testimony Tuesday

2008-09-28T21:23:00.000-05:00

Maker of Heaven & Earth

What has the Lord done in your life this week?

For me it has been seeing Him move mightily in the life of a single mom. My friend is one of my heroes. She has raised two teenagers who love the Lord with little in the way of worldly possessions. Living in a hotel for the last five or six years she has diligently taught her teens to have a cheerful attitude.

Depending on God for work, food, or rent is not an option. He is her survival.
How many of us can say the same?

Trouble comes our way and we begin thinking what we can sell, do, or move around to meet the need.
For this mother if God does not provide, it does not happen.

Over the last two years I've watched in awe as the Lord moved her out of a drug / prostitution infested hotel into one that is more like a small apartment. It is across the street from the high school and within walking distance of church. Without a car, she works daily and remains to this day one of the most joyous and hard-working people I know.

She is grateful for everything that passes through her hand. She is a faithful tither and giver.
She is the widow in the story of the widow's mite.

The last few months have been trying for her. With no money or insurance she has suffered from a bad tooth. Her health issue arose at a time when those who help her had no resources for this cost. It was frustrating to see her suffer and know it was out of our control. It was a God-only time for her and for those around her. Many have been in prayer for weeks crying out for her relief and provision. She was able to obtain antibiotics to help the infection, but soon they ran out.

Last week she walked into a dental office and asked if the dentist would see her with $50 in her purse.

Not only did he see her, but he pulled her tooth for $25! With the additional cost of x-rays ($50) they told her she could come back and pay the balance. The following day she received a call from the office staff saying they took up the money and covered the balance. Praise the Lord!

God's favor is not to be taken for granted.
He can move on the hearts of others to be the pipeline for His provision.

I am thankful to a real, working, and alive God who sees and meets our needs.
I am thankful for the opportunity to see this miracle unfold.

"I lift up my eyes to the hills--where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth." Psalms 121:1Following is a powerful song by Casting Crowns, Praise You in the Storm.

What's your praise report today? Send me your praise report!

Kellie